This is the final installment of a three part story about a college student and her psych professor meeting to discuss her paper on BDSM practices.
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"Okay, you're naked and tied down on his bed. So what will determine what he does to you?"
You answer. "Well, maybe simply how horny he is or what sort of mood he's in - impatient or all the time in the world."
"Those are certainly possibilities, but I'm looking for something different. "What about the relationship they have with each other?"
"Yes," you respond, "That's probably the determining factor. For example, if they are a middle aged married couple, they may be doing this kinky stuff to spice up their otherwise boring sex life."
"Okay," I respond, "So how will they treat each other? Probably tenderly and respectfully and they'll have a lot of fun and laughs doing something they've always regarded as naughty."
"Here's another," I say maybe, "They just met 3 hours ago at a club. They flirted, had a few drinks, danced and then went back to his apartment where they began making out on the bed. And suddenly, without warning, he reaches down beside the bed and attaches a cuff restraint to her left wrist and then crawls to the other side of the bed and restrains her other wrist. Do you think she feels the excitement of being restrained, submitting entirely and sexually excited?"
"I would find that tremendously exciting yes," you say, "But I understand that she didn't consent to that in advance, she doesn't know him well and in fact she might be scared out of her wits."
"I have another scenario," you continue, giving me a sly smile. "She's a college student and from the first day in his class, she's had a huge crush on her much older psychology professor. So she takes advantage of an open paper topic to essentially tell him how she feels and what she would like him to do to her."
I laugh and say, "I can't imagine anyone being so devious!" But I can see your lustful expression even though you're still blindfolded as you wiggle and trust out your hips trying to entice me back to the bed.
"Okay, but why is she so attracted to this much older man? Is it some sort of Daddy or authority complex?"