I am not a fan of people who judge others for their sexual proclivities be it orientation, kinks, actions, etc. I'm of the belief that as long as all participants are consenting adults then it's none of my business how other people opt to have sex.
Unless they choose to share and I find it sexy to hear about or watch...then it's still not my business, but it is fun.
I am not out about my personal...unconventional sexual needs...in my very vanilla life. I am, however, openly sex positive and will offer my live and let live opinion when it comes up. There is a segment of the feminist movement that, while decrying male control over what is acceptable for us sexually, want to control what is acceptable for all women sexually.
I've been called pro-rape, a rape apologist, and a traitor to women for expressing the opinion that as a consenting adult I have the right to give someone with whom I chose to share my body as much as access as I desire.
Being profoundly aroused by the dominance of a man doesn't mean I want the 19th amendment repealed.
Conversations like that get me totally on board with spite fucking against judgy people.