A big part of the reason why Sara and I are having an affair is that we can't get what we want at home. We have both asked our spouses to step things up, to make sex a higher priority, to put more energy into their efforts...
But, we have both met with the same resistance. It's too much work. It's too scary to try new things. It's not something that they want to do.
So, we try new things. And, Sara once told me that she was tired of having to take the lead in her relationship, and she wanted just once to be tied up and teased until she couldn't stand it anymore. No, she wasn't looking for pain or anything like that, she just wanted to have things done to her. It would be a welcome change of pace.
So, on her birthday this past October, I decided that I was going to have to try something new. I surfed online to an adult toy store and found a set of bed restraints. The cuffs were padded, so she wouldn't be uncomfortable, and I added on a blindfold, so she would be totally at my mercy.
I arranged for a hotel room, and one day, we took some time off from work to meet up. I had a 'doctor's appointment', and she had 'something to do with her kids'. I was already in the room, and had broken out the new toys. It took a little bit of figuring out how all of this stuff worked, and it took some time to move a queen sized mattress around to accommodate the hardware, but everything was ready and tucked out of the way when I heard her knock on the door.
I opened the door, and she fell into my arms, kissing me passionately. Her fingers quickly unbuttoned my shirt while I unhooked her bra and then reached my hands up the front of her blouse. We made out for a long time at the door, and my cock was already throbbing, anticipating what was to come. But, since it was her birthday, I wanted to make sure she got her surprise first.
"Sara," I said, "why don't you come over to the bed and sit down." She did as asked, breathing heavily. "There's something I wanted to give you on your birthday, but I'm sure you won't want to show it to anyone." I reached into the night stand by the side of the bed and pulled out the black satin blindfold.
A smile crept across her face. "So, what did you have in mind for today?"
"Just you let me handle this," I said, helping her out of her skirt and panties after I put the blindfold over her eyes. "Now, lie down."
At first, she was a little hesitant. "What are you going to do?" she asked.
"Do you trust me?"
"Yes."
"OK, then, just let me take over." I pulled the restraints out from under the sheets and wrapped them around her ankles.
"Ohhh..." she moaned as I wrapped the cuffs around her wrists. There she was, spread eagle across the bed and totally naked. I now had total control over Sara's gorgeous naked body, and she was getting turned on.