Not how I thought my day would go.
My girlfriend is called Kelly and she does like to be a submissive during our sex play. What I was not expecting is the following.
I arrived home and started dinner for me and her. She called to say that she was stuck in traffic and would, it looks like be about 1hr later than normal. It was the weekend traffic that was bad as we live not far from the coast and if the sun comes out it takes longer to get anywhere. What I did not know till later was she was actually less than a mile away in the layby thinking about what to do.
When she arrived home she looked a bit flustered and went to have a shower whilst I finished getting dinner. We sat down and started to eat, I asked how her day was and she said "Fine, yours?" I could tell there was something wrong. I decided to use the direct approach.
"Do you want to talk about it now or do you want to wait till later?"
"Now." Was the reply.
"Ok, you start."
"I was not an hr away, I was sat in the layby a mile away, trying to decide how to tell you this."
My first thought was she wanted to split up, although I could not think what I had done to make her think that. Maybe she had found someone else. So many thoughts.
I was a bit unsure what to say next but "OK, What did you decide?"
Kelly took a deep breathe as if once she started she wanted to finish and said, "You know when we have sex I like being told what to do, well I have been looking at websites and some women like to be submissive all the time, I think that is what I want, when I am here you are in charge, you can tell me what to do, whether I am clothed or naked, you can decide. I will do whatever you like whether we have sex and in what position is up to you. Although I want to be punished if I do something you do not like, I do not want any permanent marks. The websites had all sorts of things that I want to try and I want to try them with you. I do not want a say in the matter of how and when."
Mind blown.
I took her hand across the table and just said, "Are you sure that you want this, I do not want you to feel pressured into doing this but once you have made the decision, that will be it. I will be in charge if we are alone anywhere.
"I still want to be able to work as I enjoy my job, once I am home you will be in charge. If I get home before you, I will wait for you to tell me what to do.
"What websites have you been looking at?" I asked.
It seemed that she had a few in her favourites and showed them to me, also she had a submissive contact which she found. I read it and it seems to be more or less what she had already said.
"So if I say strip, stand with your feet apart and your hands behind your back, you will?"
"Yes."
"So, do it."
With that she stood up, and removed her clothes and put them on a chair. Her face had a smile on it but it was a different smile as if she was already in a different head space. Now Kelly has a good figure and her tits are great and with her hands behind her back they are pushed out. Her legs apart I had a great view of her fanny. Now I had of course see all this before but now it was different I was always concerned that she would not want to carry on once we started our role play, now she did not have an option.