I never really knew much about The kink scene. When we were about 25. My friend and I were discussing it and she was telling me about all these kinks that I had no idea were kinks but it was all very hot. Anyway, a few days later, she calls me as she has discovered there is a Munch on (I had no idea what it was at the time) and she wanted me to go with her as she didn't want to go alone.
I was keen to go along as I was intrigued. It just ended up being a catch up with strangers really, but one guy told us about an event that was on at the weekend. However, he advised us not to go because it might overwhelm us with how new we were to The Scene.
Of course, this only made me want to go even more and I talked my friend into it. On the weekend I picked her up and it was about 1.5 hours drive away. We were chatting away but the closer we got, the quieter we got as we had no idea what to expect and we were quite nervous.
We got there and it was still pretty quiet at that point. It was mainly just one room but with lots of netted off areas where you could go and play in private. We had a look around the market and there were so many things! Whips and chains, floggers and paddles, riding crops, spanking benches. Collars. A huge variety of implements.
We had a couple of drinks, well I did as I was driving. I plied my friend with wine to get her talkative. It's getting busier by this point. There's an older larger woman just sat around naked, lots of couples spanking each other and a blind man stood on a pain mat with a chain pegged to both nipples getting spanked by three women. It was all going on! We were trying to look normal and like we go to these places all The time. Then we hear a crack, look up and there's a guy cracking a whip.
By this point, my friend is tipsy and talkative and immediately goes up to him and asks if she can have a go. He looks at me and asks if I want to play. I'm very nervous but also very keen. I tell him it's my first time and he says he will be gentle with me and walk me through it.