My Good Girls

My Good Girl Alice has recently posted a story about her journey to becoming my Girl on this web site and has encouraged me to write my story as well. I am her Daddy and she thought her audience might be interested in hearing my perspective on our "family". So I have decided to comply. (Note: some sites did not post her story because it did not pass the censors).

It was some years ago that I recognized a common element in the women I was having intimate BDSM relationships with: they wanted rules and consequences. In short, they were seeking a Male authoritarian figure to provide discipline. Upon further investigation, I discovered another common element: all of these women had childhood relationships with their fathers that were lacking something. Either the father was emotionally or physically distant, not present, unemotional, harsh or downright abusive.

The need to seek a permanent male companion was being complicated by the fact that they were also seeking a father figure. Sometimes these two needs were in conflict. So I decided I was going to try to organize a harem around me as the father figure in a "family". It turned out to be amazingly easy.

In all of the dealings with the Good Girls in my family, I strive to be positive influence, meeting their sexual and intimate needs while boosting their confidence and self-image. This might sound like a contradiction but I assure you it is not. All of the girls in my family lead productive and satisfying lives.

The process for finding, recruiting, qualifying and testing prospective Good Girls is described in Alice's story so I won't repeat it here. The testing part is unique to each girl so I'll elaborate on it a bit.

The last phase of the process is testing or "the challenge", where the girl undergoes a challenging experience that she must pass before she becomes a Good Girl and becomes part of the family. There are multiple purposes for this:

1) Humans don't place any value on something that is given too freely so the test is intended to be difficult for that reason. Most girls pass their test.

2) To demonstrate to the girl what I am capable of. This is important. My value to the girl is diminished if she doesn't fear and respect my capabilities.

3) Because I am a sadist and I enjoy creating and executing grueling experiences.

Alice describes her challenge and the challenge that some of her sisters endured so I won't repeat that here. Suffice it to say that some consider my tastes in BDSM extreme.

The rules that Good Girls must follow are described in Alice's story also, but I'll repeat them here:

- Behaves like a lady

- Obeys Daddy's orders and rules

- Dates only people that Daddy approves of

- Pleases Daddy in any way she can

- Is completely open and honest with Daddy; no secrets or white lies

- Accepts punishment when she disobeys or misbehaves

Further detail on behaving like a lady:

- Dresses conservatively.

- Does not smoke, drink or use drugs.

- Never swears or is impolite, is catty or gossipy.

- Keeps her house or room neat and clean.

Good Girls get rewards for good behavior and punishment for bad behavior. Rewards come for actions that are exceptional in pleasing me, periodically for sustained good behavior, or special occasions like birthdays. Punishments are severe and done quickly after the misbehavior is discovered. Some of the girls require periodic "preventative" punishments to reduce anxiety and provide emotional release.

As I said before, it turned out to be amazingly easy to add Good Girls to my family or harem. I don't keep count and some of the Girls have moved away or are in relationships that preclude them from being active in the family. But I have plenty of Good Girls to keep me stimulated, happy, and busy, and am often in pursuit of another one.

The "family" consists of me, the Good Girls (daughters) and one or two "boys". The "boys" are male, submissive heterosexuals that I have agreed to enslave so they can be part of the family. In my opinion, they are the lowest form of human life so they are abused and given the most menial tasks in the household. Why do the boys stay around and why is there a waiting list of men that want to become "boys"? Because they have "access" to all the Good Girls. As a Dominant male, my mouth never touches the female pussy so the boys get that duty, along with other pleasurable encounters that I permit. And even the boys get a special birthday celebration once a year.

Last year, the Girls bound the boy to a chair, naked and paraded around him, caressing and teasing him with their hands and mouths. They used their hands on his cock to bring him to the edge of orgasm repeatedly before stopping and dousing him with cold water. When they finally did let him cum, he screamed like a maniac, bucked like bronco and sprayed cum all over our playroom.

There is a lot of diversity in the Good Girls in what they do for me and what I do for them. For all of them, I make the rules and provide the discipline. But there are varying degrees of discipline required. Most of the Good Girls provide me with intimate and sexual pleasure but not all; Georgia is my live-in housekeeper and cook. Her intimate needs are met by cuddling and sleeping in the same bed with me (on occasion).

Some of the Girls require a lot of my attention. Inez is a good example of what I call a "fence tester". Inez has trust and security issues. My "presence" in her life needs to be proven frequently by the infliction of severe punishment. Preventative punishment and strict rules have not proven to be adequate. If she is not punished for disobedience on a regular basis, she develops anxiety that originates from a childhood with an alcoholic father.

The job is too big for me alone. Some of the other Girls and the boy help out by monitoring her social media accounts and making unannounced visits to her house for inspections. I even have a few video cameras in her house to monitor her behavior. She has more rules than the other girls also: masturbation and porn viewing are restricted. I monitor her financial accounts for spending that is not authorized. Suffice it to say, she thrives on a very short leash.

When punishment is required, she comes to my house and we follow a precise ritual. She strips upon entering my house and goes to the punishment room without a word. She waits there until I decide it's time. I will order her into a spanking position (I have a variety to choose from) and will lecture her on the need to behave better and then will deliver the corporal punishment using a tool of my choice. She is allowed to cry and beg but she must also count and thank me for each stroke. Sometimes when the punishment is particularly extreme, the boy or one of the Girls will help her to maintain her position.

Her punishment is often recorded and posted to the internet to add to her shame. A picture of her in corner time with her marks displayed is always posted. There is a gallery of her after-punishment photos that is open to all to view. Corner time is followed by a violent face fuck and cuddle time where Daddy tells her that he still loves her but that she will continue to be punished if she doesn't improve her behavior.

Fortunately, Inez is the only Girl that requires that level of attention right now. More typical is Monica. Monica also has security issues but hates the idea of displeasing Daddy so her behavior is always good. I address her need for security with confinement.

Monica wears a collar 24/7; it's not always the same collar, but she always wears one. She has piercings in her outer labia with flesh tunnels in them so I can padlock her pussy, which I often do. For playtime and rewards, she enjoys cages, corsets, straight jackets, arm binders, head harnesses and anything that fits tight and restricts movement.

My bondage skills are poor so I often resort to bondage wear (like arm binders), cable ties, and industrial shrink wrap. I also have a very nice set of prison chains that she adores. I often pair her bondage attire with a chastity belt.

She has a strong vanilla sex drive so I permit her to go to swinger clubs where she creates a stir by presenting the key to her pussy locks to the man of her choice for the evening. Her favorite way to spend an evening with me is to be completely bound so she cannot move, with a ring gag in her mouth for a nice face fucking.

These are just two examples of the Girls in my family. There are also the cutters, the tat-addicts and the humiliation sluts. In my experience, the cutters respond well to the use of pain that meets their specific need. Sometimes it takes some experimentation to determine what form of pain addresses the same need at cutting.

The humiliation sluts are a little harder to deal with in a positive way. These women have a very poor self-image and crave reinforcement of that image by being humiliated or abused. Reinforcing a negative self-image is not something I'm willing to do so I strive to find ways to meet the desire for humiliation without being destructive. It's a fine line to walk.

I have lists of things I will and will not engage in with a humiliation slut: pig noses and tails, oinking, scat or mud play are off limits. Piss play, face-fucking, slapping, spanking, whipping, body-writing are allowed. I always combine positive reinforcement with my words when I am engaging in the activities. Sometimes I will turn things around and will order the girl to humiliate one of the boys but I'm not convinced that is beneficial.

There is a lot more that I could write about our family and how it works but this has already gotten a bit long. I may consider writing a second part if requested.

I'll end this by saying that our family relationships work for us and for most of us, our needs are met better than could ever be achieved in a monogamous relationship.