Actually, we got acquainted on the internet. On one of those chat groups that you can find almost anywhere. Her name is Cindy, and she is of that exquisite age of 26, where everything out in the world is still fantastic and exciting. We had some great talks, and eventually moved to the phone, where we spent hours discussing our likes and dislikes. We discovered that we both had an interest in bondage, but that neither of us had much experience. Oh, of course, we "cruised" the internet and the news services; reading of others and their experiences, but until we found each other, we did not know a soul who we could even talk with. After our phone calls, which had became a nightly occurrence, we decided to meet for dinner, which was not difficult, as we both lived in the same city.
What a great time we had; the dinners were excellent, the wine was wonderful, and we both were attracted to each other. How lucky could we get? Anyway, after we finished dinner, we started talking about how we would enjoy the bondage scene. Actually, it came about that Cindy preferred to role play as a sub, and I, of course, preferred the dominant role. Well, we talked of the various ways one could be bound and "teased", or even subjected to mild pain. We both would not prefer to become involved with any of the so called "heavy pain" events. Piercing, and actual "tortures" were discounted, and as were some others that we both did not prefer to become involved with.
"Rape" was one thing that Cindy would possibly be interested, but she would decide on that later. In reality, we were both pretty well matched with our desires and our interests. I guess, at this point, we were about ready to become involved with an actual "scene" or as we would eventually put it; a "heavy date". We decided that we would meet at my place since it was located in a nice neighborhood, and it was a house as opposed to an apartment, and of course, very private. We decided that we would meet in one week, which would also give me a chance to do some preparing of my facilities in advance.
Needless to say, I was excited, and a little nervous. I had never done anything like this before, and I did not want to scare or even hurt someone, even if it were unintentionally. We decided that I would plan the entire episode, and not disclose and of the plans that I would make. This would give Cindy an additional excitement or apprehension, which would add to the sensual part of the evening.
Cindy arrived at the agreed upon time, wearing a very chic outfit. She was dressed in a white blouse trimmed with tiny lace at the neck and sleeves. Her skirt was an a-line and a deep red with a split hem. She wore matching heels. I could see that she was somewhat nervous. I had anticipated this, and had prepared a light meal tempered with a soft white wine. I had guessed correctly that this would relax her and let her become more at ease. As we finished our last sip of wine, I asked her what her favorite word might be. She said "I guess it would be sunset, which is my favorite time of the day" At that, I said that our "safe word" would be "sunset".
At any time during our evening, regardless of what we might be doing, if she called out "sunset",I would stop any proceedings, and we could stop for the evening. I wouldn't want to do anything that would not be okay with Cindy, so if and when she said the word "sunset", I would immediately stop and would go no further without her consent . Naturally, Cindy was in complete agreement. I could see that she was beginning to relax and that she was beginning to "get into it".
