Mindy and I have been married for almost 3 years, and on the outside, it looks like any other random marriage than you chance upon in your life. However, the secret to our marriage is that Mindy is a devout slave, a sexual toy for my perverted mind to utilize. We aren't one of those couples that are openly in an S/M relationship, because it will affect her work (as a teacher) and cause problems in our generally conservative neighborhood. It will also leave myself open to accusations of spousal abuse and undesired negative attention. So for the sake of both of us, we've pretty much kept this part of our relationship a secret. We're not one of those couples that host parties every weekend with 20 other S/M couples or anything.
First of all, Mindy is 31 years old, 5'5 in height, and a good figure. She has 36 DD breasts, and ample backside. She's not like a supermodel with six pack Abs or anything, she has a little pouch, but it is minimal, and won't evoke any images of a cow or obese animals. Her face is cute (Ok, I'll admit, I don't exactly know how to describe people's faces, what do you say? She has a nose, eyes? How do you convey cuteness? Let's just say it's cute) with black hair. Her legs are pretty nice too. She works as a teacher as I mentioned before. I'm 5'10, I look good (Yes, I look good, got it?!), and I work as an accountant (Yes, not the sexiest job, but it keeps premium food on the table).
Before we got married, it was a relationship that mirrors most other relationships you hear about. We met randomly at a concert, started talking to each other on social media, and then soon enough started dating.........which eventually led to us getting married. Vanilla.
I've always been interested in BDSM, atleast the dominant side of it. I don't quite get how more people aren't, to be honest. How can you not want a woman who listens to every one of your desires and aims to please you? But the problem is that, it's not mainstream enough, and that leaves it hard to find a suitable companion that has avidity for the submissive side of a BDSM relationship. You'll realize soon enough that there are plenty of women who want to control you, but the city of Atlantis has a better chance of being found than a truly submissive woman. Before we got married, I had noticed some submissive tendencies in her, but none were explicit enough for me to conclude that she was truly submissive. She always deferred to me in picking places to visit or planning events, or was more than happy to cook food while I was watching TV or something, and would clean my apartment when I slept in late. Overly considerate? Submissive? I didn't know.
You have to realize with psychology, that if you ask someone to be a submissive, and they aren't one- and don't plan on being one- it ruins the relationship because everything else is now seen as possible implementation of authority. So if your wife/gf rejects being a submissive, the next time you ask her to pass the water might not seem so innocent to her. So while I had an idea that she might be submissive, I definitely wasn't going to push it, until I knew for sure.
And that day came soon.
One of the benefits of being an accountant is that, soon after the tax season, there isn't much for you to do at work. There is obviously still balancing the books and all, but most of the grunt work is done for about 3 months leading up to the tax deadline. Alas, it's easier to get days off, and on one of these days off, I decided to unpack a bunch of stuff in our new home. And since it's the summer, Mindy was home as well. So we went through unpacking boxes and arranging it in different parts of the house. As usual, she did more work than I. Eventually, she was complaining about how much stuff we have, so I decided to pitch in, with some of her stuff. Soon, I got to a box that was marked "Personal", and I knew it was hers, since I don't actually label any of my boxes, so I opened it with curiosity. Much to my disappointment, it seemed like a bunch of books.
However, as soon as she saw me looking at the box, she leapt up from her place across the room, came by, took the box, and said she'll take care of this, don't worry. I wasn't really interested in the books before, but I sure was now!
She had the same tenacity to protect that box as you do, when your parents are trying to clean your room, and they get too close to the secret porn stash, and you leap in, saying you'll take care of. "Don't worry, I got it, I can take care of the room, Mom, move on!"
Eventually I told her I wanted to see the box and she gave in (Submissiveness again? Although I don't know why I keep asking, the title is "Modern Slave Wife", so the answer is yes obviously. I finally feel like one of those crash investigation shows, where they lead you into a commercial break asking "Is Flight 145332 going to make it, or be doomed? We'll be right back!").
And inside it were a bunch of BDSM stories, pictures, and a boat load of books about BDSM slavery, mostly from the slave's position. WTF? You really need books to explain being a slave? I thought the whole point was to just do what the master wanted? Like a master is really going to be like "Hey, I want you to do Clause 6 of Page 134 in Book X, NOW!!"