I met slave3 when I was working at a small technology company. We were both managers. She was attractive, blonde and had a nice figure. She started flirting with me some months after I started and I reciprocated. This went on for some time.
We were on a business trip together once and decided to tour the city one evening when we were off work. I was looking for a leather shop I'd heard about and we found it but it was closed. It was during this evening that she turned up the flirting. As we walked side-by-side on the city streets, she would bump her boob onto my elbow as if she was getting crowded or losing her balance. I pretended not to notice. After that, the flirting increased until she finally asked me if I wanted to have an affair. I think this is important: the slave should pursue the Master and end up asking or begging for a relationship. This endures she understands her place from the beginning.
She knew that I enjoyed BDSM because I was looking for the leather shop but she didn't know how serious I was. Our first sexual encounter took place at work, after hours. We found a rarely-used small conference room and locked the door. I ordered her to strip and after some hesitation, she complied. I then used a cable tie to bind her hands behind her and started manhandling her body, giving her mild spanks on the ass and boobs and using my hands to apply pain to sensitive areas.
She pretended to try to get away from me and avoid my advances. It was then that I grabbed her and put my hand on her cunt to stimulate her. What I found surprised me and stuck with me until today. Her cunt was sopping wet, actually dripping down the inside of both thighs. This was a watershed moment for me: some women get turned on by being dominated or tortured and I had found one!
After this, our relationship moved to hotel rooms, frequently. I developed a slave protocol that I used for the rest of my BDSM relationships. It went something like this: The slave would enter the hotel room, shed her clothes, drop to her knees and ask permission to serve me or give me pleasure. From there I might move to an "inspection of my property". She would stand with feet apart, hands behind her head and mouth wide open. If my inspection took long enough, drool would drip onto her tits.
My hands and lips would roam her body, alternately caressing and causing pain. I would breathe on her neck and in her ears, whispering threatening or exciting phrases to stimulate her. After I got to know a slave well enough, I knew exactly where her erogenous zones were and I'd use them to bring her to a state of excitement quickly.
Eventually my hands would make their way to her pussy. I would gently stroke the outside lips and in the opening between them, with my fingertips. Her orgasms required my permission, I would often give her an event to wait for, such as when my finger entered her cunt. But prior to that, I'd take my time stimulating her body into a high level of excitement.
In my early days of Mastery, I was of the opinion that slaves did not deserve pleasure or orgasms. If I gave the slave an orgasm, it was for my pleasure. I would enjoy my mastery over her body and ability to manipulate her reactions. If I gave her an orgasm during the inspection, I might not allow her another one for the rest of the session. Later on I modified that thinking and enjoyed using orgasms to torture or manipulate my slave.
During that first hotel visit with slave3, I made her earn the privilege of worshipping my cock. It would start with kissing my feet. Eventually she would be allowed to kiss my balls. It would then progress to licking my balls, kissing my cock and licking my cock. Finally, when she had been a very good girl, she would be allowed to take my cock into her mouth and suck me. I referred to it as "cock worship" because it's much more than a blow job. A properly trained slave gets incredible enjoyment in bringing pleasure to her Master's cock, maybe to the extent that she orgasms herself in the process. Sometimes I would sit on the edge of the bed and lay back and just enjoy the pleasure my slave was bringing to me. Other times I would grab her hair and face fuck her (although that term wasn't in use at that time).
I'm not sure when I introduced rimming into our scenes but I'm sure slave3 was required to lick my anus and try to penetrate it with her tongue. I remember standing, with her face in my ass and reaching around to pull her hair so that she was deeply in the crack. Rimming is one of the most submissive acts a slave can perform and it's important to include that in your repertoire.