So yesterday my wife clicked the lock on my chastity cage shut and told me about her conditions.
This began all about me and my fantasies but has slowly evolved into something that we BOTH now enjoy. At first it's all about you and your submissive fantasies. That's why it's so hard to explain to your female partner. She's so used to the old you and always demanding sex in some manner. Suddenly, here you are, trying to convince her how exciting it will be NOT to cum.
Can you imagine how confusing this all must be to her?
But women are patient and smart and will wait you out to see what ulterior motives you have with this. But if you are patient, she will eventually let her guard down enough to give it a try.
Then, as you both settle in with this, you have to take it slow or she will decide that this is only about you and there's nothing exciting for her.
This is our second attempt with male chastity and it's taken almost two years to get here. To make it real, you need to go really slow but kindly remind her how important the teasing and denial is to you; then leave her be.
If you're lucky like me, she will think about it because she wants to please you and see what this is all about. It will seem strange and kinky to her; after-all, she's been brought up to be a good girl.
Like planting a seed, it takes time to grow. It needs sunshine, water and nutrients to blossom. With a solid relationship, you may eventually find yourself where you so desperately long to be; locked 24/7 at the mercy of your wife and used for her pleasure. Well, that is what we dream about!!!!
Could I escape from the cage and go whack off? Well, of course I could but why on earth would I? The constant ache in my balls and the unbelievable frustration I feel is the reminder of the nirvana it brings me; I don't know why it does but neither does she. My only hope is that she enjoys it too.
And if you do everything right, you may hear the sweetest words imaginable. I still remember hearing her say it to me; it was like sweet music.
"I love the cage because it makes me feel special. You let me sleep and then when I wake, you scratch my back and rub my bottom. You help around the house, rub my feet and we rarely argue anymore. Plus, you stopped trying to force sex on me all the time and behaving like a baby when i tell you no. That means so much to me," she said.
I told her I do it because I love her and want to make her feel special.
"I believe you now. I haven't let you cum for almost a month and instead of being a jerk, you treat me like a princess. I used to feel selfish, lying back and enjoying myself as your tongue worked its magic on me and all without ever needing to return the favor."
My dick got hard hearing her say that and wanted to eat her pussy right then and there.
I didn't believe you but I see now that I have been returning the favor all along by not letting you cum. I see how much going down on me turns you on and I plan on giving you more of what you crave; that's what turns you on and I love you," she said.
So today is Saturday morning and I woke with a hard on inside my cage as usual. I prefer a larger cage because I can still get hard which is healthier but also is tougher mentally for me because it feels like being denied.
I look over at my bride of twenty years and see why I got on one knee for her and asked her to marry me. I lay back and soon hear her rise and use the commode. Upon her return she checks her watch and gets back in the bed.
I reach for her arm and she responds.
"Would you rub my back please?"
I tell her yes and slide over to her. I scratch her back but she stops me.
"I need to take this off."
She takes off her nightgown and panties and now is totally naked; I'm trembling with my pent up desire for her.
She reaches down for a moment and touches the cage.