Kaitlyn is a bitch. That is all I have to say.
Kaitlyn and I share an apartment, we have for about 5 years now. We have known each other a little longer than that, maybe a year longer. I found out about her "lifestyle" just after she moved in to my place. She was looking for an apartment, we got along, and I needed a roomie, so things worked out. Well, actually, things better than worked out.
I came to find out that Kaitlyn was very into what she called "D&s," although she would never explain what that term exactly meant. I figured it had to do with tying guys up, since she always tied guys up in her bedroom.
I asked her on numerous occasions why she did that, and what the term meant. She never answered.
One day, when I really pressed her on it, she told me.
"I like to dominate men. They like to be submissive," she told me. "So, I'm the `D' and they are the `s.'"
I didn't understand what she meant. I knew what domination and submission was. In fact, I was quite experienced as a submissive, but I had never heard of a woman dominating a man. So I asked her what she meant.
"Well, I tie men up, and . . .". Before she completed her answer I interjected.
"But, I like to be tied up, it's not normal for men to like it."
She looked at me and smiled. "So, you like to be tied up, Kelly? I never would have guessed. So if you like it, what's so unnatural about other people liking it?"
I tried to explain that I thought it was only something that women would like, or had experienced and she explained to me that she knew lots of men who enjoyed it. I was blown away. I would have never guessed it.
That night passed, and it was a few weeks before the subject came up again. When it did, I found myself talking to Kaitlyn about how much I enjoyed being bound, about how erotic and stimulating it was for me. I even told her that it didn't matter who tied me up, just as long as they did it.
Once I said that she paused.
"Really?" she asked, "it doesn't matter who ties you up? Not at all?"
I thought about it, and I finally concluded that it didn't. It was almost like the bondage was the sexual part for me, the person had nothing to do with it really. That night, Kaitlyn offered to tie me up. She told me that she was something of an expert, but even experts needed practice at their craft. It sort of hit me out of the blue. I didn't know what to say, but after I thought about it, I agreed.
Now, I need to explain something about our relationship. Neither Kaitlyn nor I are lesbian. Our interest in bondage was mutual, and we decided that we could help each other out. Part of our agreement was that the way we would handle this would be strictly non-sexual, and only for the pleasure of bondage. In my case being tied, in her case the tying. We had both confessed that was the element that turned us on the most. Kaitlyn had always tied men up, but she confided in me that she found several of the pictures she had seen of bound women to be very erotic and that they turned her on. We agreed, however, there would be no sexual element involved at all. No kissing, no oral sex, and not even masturbation. We both agreed and sealed our agreement with a handshake.
That evening, we agreed, at seven o'clock, we would sit down and discuss some limits and ideas and the equipment that would be used. We would set out our ground rules.
I sent the rest of the day fantasizing about my night of bondage. It was going to be wonderful. I could be tied, without worring about being sexually assulted, or having some guy think I was nuts. I also knew that Kaitlyn was going to do a very good job. She was an expert, and she had all the equipment one could ever wish for. Many a night while she was out, I had slipped into her room and tried on some of her gear, leather cuffs, gags and blindfolds. Almost always, I would end up with my wrists tied together in front of me, gagged and blindfolded, wearing small nipple clamps with my ankles tied together. From there, I would hop, as best I could, back to my room, fall on my bed and grope around until I found the vibrator I left there for me. Once I got ahold of it, I would begin masturbating (sometimes for as long as two hours) bound, gagged and blindfolded, until I was exhausted. Then, I would hop back, unlock myself and return her equipment. Many a night I saw her collection, and much of what she owned was alien to me. Quite a bit of it I had never seen before or didn't understand.
Those nights of fantasy, I though, were to become a thing of the past. Tonight would be real, I would not be able to hop anywhere, I hoped. Nor would I be able to unlock myself. I would need Kaitlyn to do that for me. I trusted her completely.
Finally, when seven o'clock rolled around, we met in the living room, on the couch. We began talking.
"So, how are we going to do this?" Kaitlyn asked.
"Well," I told her, "I want you to tie me up."
"How?" she inquired, "I mean real tight? Or loose? Or what? How long? What do you want me to use? What should I do once you are tied up? What kind of stuff do you like?"
I blushed a little, I had never talked like this with anyone, much less my room mate. "Well," I started," I kinda want to be tied up so that I. . .". I paused.
"So that you what?" Kaitlyn asked.
"So I can't move. Not too uncomfortable or anything, but really tight. Ya know what I mean?" I asked sheepishly.
"Oh, I know what you mean," Kaitlyn told me, smiling. "And how long do you want to be kept like this?" she continued.
"Well, if it's o.k," I continued, "until tomorrow, maybe lunchtime."
Kaitlyn was now smiling very wide. She shook her head, "I didn't think you were really serious, but you are, aren't you. You really want this, you really need it, don't you. I know you play with my stuff when I'm gone, but you need more than that don't you?"
Oh Shit, I thought. She knows. My look must have turned to one of sheer embarassment. Kaitlyn reached over and gave me a nice hug.
"It's o.k. Kelly," she told me, "I understand. I'll tie you up, if that's what you want, don't be embarassed. I have some surprises for you, I think you'll like them. Why don't we get started. But we must remember our deal. No sex, no masturbation, nothing like that, right?"
I agreed. Kaitlyn stood up and went into her room. When she came back, she was dressed up very nicely. A black leather mini, and a large red cotton blouse, and a wide black leather belt. She wore a nice pair of black pumps, which accented her tan legs.
She picked up a chair from the dining room. It was fairly heavy, done in oak and wicker. Nice choice, I though, lots of place to hang ropes and things. I smiled. She pulled it over to the center of the room, about 10 feet back from our big screen TV (a gift from one of her clients, that was one of the pleasures of living with Kaitlyn!). She told me to sit in the chair and get comfortable. I did.
She went into her room and came back with a very large gym bag. "Guess you've seen most of this stuff before, huh? But I bet you don't know what half of it is for." She smiled, "Tonight, my dear, you find out."
She asked me if I prefered to be tied in my clothes, my underwear or naked. She asked without showing a preference for any. I asked her which was best, and we finally both agreed on me wearing only my underwear. I stood up and stripped down to my Calvin Klein briefs and sports bra. Kaitlyn nodded approvingly. Then she looked at me very seriously and told me to remember what she had to say.
"If anything is too tight, you tell me. If anything becomes too tight, cuts off circulation or even gets too uncomfortable, you let me know. Also, if anything is too loose, tell me that too. I don't want you making an early escape." She laughed and I agreed.
First, Kaitlyn put a pair of beautiful fur lined red leather cuffs on my ankles, and she took a length of rope out and asked me to wrap my arms back around behind the chair. I did and she slowly and methodically tied my wrists together. They were tight, but not constricting. I could wiggle my wrists a little, but only a bit.
"Tighter, please," I told her.
"Don't worry, Kelly," she explained, "it will be, I have barely started. Trust me for the moment. I'll ask you how it feels when I'm done."
I had a certain sense of confidence and security. My fingers, if I wiggled my wrists just right, could reach the knots. They felt tight, but I knew if things got too unbearable, I could probably work my way out. I was actually a bit relieved. The second thing that Kaitlyn did was to work my elbows back and forth a bit, until they managed to touch. Once they did, she put two small, soft cuffs on each and clipped them together. My breasts stuck out and my back arched a bit, but otherwise it felt rather comfortable. Between my elbows there was some play, I could separate them maybe an inch or so. Being tied like this was not as strict as I had hoped, but I felt wonderful being so confined. I was secure that I could get out if I had too, but I knew, for now, I didn't want to. It reminded me of my sessions in my room, and my crotch began getting damp. I started to feel very horny at the moment.
My security was taken away, when Kaitlyn pulled out a large roll of wide white adhesive tape. She stepped behind me and I could hear her wrapping it around the rope behind my back. My fingers reached up and I could feel that she had taped up the rope and knots. Now it was tighter, and I could no longer wiggle my wrists or reach the knots.
"Too much?" she asked.
I responded shaking my head no. But to my surprise, I could barely vocalize my thoughts, all I could think about was how hot my crotch was becoming. My breathing was deeper and my thoughts were scrambling.
"You are really getting turned on my dear," Kaitlyn added pointing to the now noticable wet mark on my panties. "But remember," she told me strenly, "no sex, and no masturbation." I nodded, briefly coming out of the haze that had come over me.
Kaitlyn stepped over to her bag and pulled out what looked like a long leather sleeve, with several straps at the top. It was one of the things that I had never recognized.
"This is an armbinder, Kelly," she informed me, "I think you'll like it."
She stepped behind me and I felt it slide up over my wrists and then my elbows and then all the way up to my shoulders. It was snug, but not uncomfortable. Then, Kaitlyn began lacing it, and it grew tighter and tighter as the laces rose up my arms. When she was done, they were totally imprisoned, and totally immobilized. To make things worse, or better, she ran a strap under my armpits and buckled it back behind my neck, making sure it wouldn't slide back off. Then she set about pulling several bands tight. One at my wrist, one above and one below my elbows and one on my upper arms.