There are many elements including personality, past experience, life in the present, desires, fantasies and objective knowledge that go into the formation of a BDSM partnership. And, you never know where a partner might come from or when they may mysteriously appear from another realm or part of the world and your entire being says this is the one, "this IS the one".
Just such a thing happen during the meeting of the experienced Mistress, Isabella and Darcy, the submissive man who would soon become her slave. He was from another country but was desperate t find his Mistress. He had looked in his own area and, never quite to Ms Isabella's satisfaction, tried to explained why he was unable to find that perfect Mistress somewhere closer to home. Ms. Isabella had dealt with so many inadequate slaves that she tended to doubt the words of all of them especially since their words all tended to be the same. A little variation here and there but the fact is they all swore the deepest devotion, great love and care to an unknown Mistress.
Isabella was always amazed and yet irritated that someone would pledge to serve a woman they did not know. All had become such a bore to her. But, this one was different. That is, if he were telling the truth. He had told Isabella that he once had a great love that betrayed him and in doing so made him feel less than a man, had belittled his manhood before she walked out on him. Isabella never knew for sure what made each man need her but she had, over the years, come to some basic conclusions. One of those was to give up the mental control in order to find their emotional strength again. This man fit those conclusions perfectly. And, he was quite handsome and had a cock that she knew she could work with and enjoy.
After many writings, messages, and phone conversations, they agreed to meet each other to see how things might work. It was a big step. This man, the first in a long time, wanted more than a Mistress, he needed to be a total slave but also wanted a woman to love and still be a man. A very tricky proposition for her to negotiate. Which role or need comes first is always the question, is it the love of the man and woman or the bond between the Mistress and the slave. And, was he really a slave? He'd never had a Mistress other than a couple of short trials and a couple of pro-Dommes.
However, his desires and a need to serve appeared to be very deep. It was possible that part of the way into his training he would realize that he did not want to "play this game". Isabella new that for Darcy to be a total slave to her she would have to create an unusual environment for him one which was often cruel, exacting, and demanding but full of respect, care and nurturing. He must know that he is a slave owned by Isabella for her pure enjoyment. If he received what he needed from it - fine - but what he would receive was the knowledge that he totally belonged to a powerful woman and no longer had any control over his life and the freedom to let go of himself and old wounds. Only if he could truly be her slave could she allow herself to love him as a man. Isabella shivered at the thought of the pure joy but possible disappointment that lie waiting for her.
Upon meeting, Isabella decided that the first step would be to touch him on the desiring, loving woman level. He had been alone for a long time. They met at the airport and without a word of introduction, Isabella kissed him and felt her own passions rising quite unexpectedly and it was evident to anyone who cared to look that Darcy's passion was already aflame. "Did you book us a hotel room?" Isabella asked? Darcy just stared at her eyes and was almost incapable of answering. He finally managed a soft raspy "yes". They got her bags and went straight to the hotel. Much to her own surprise, Isabella found that her desire for this man sitting next to her was mounting each moment. He was a good-looking man with somewhat delicate features but it was evident that he had worked hard all is life because he was very muscular and had a presence that announced control is his business life. She imagined the muscles in his ass rippling as he fucked her - fucked a woman for the first time in a long time. The trip to the hotel could not be fast enough.
The room was delightful and cool. He had already checked in and gathered fresh fruit, chocolates, champagne, and bottled water. Very few words had been spoken during the cab ride. There had been holding and touching of hands but all words seemed to have been stuck in each throat. Now, standing in the small but beautifully laid out room, they merely looked at each other. There was an intenseness that made the space between them seem as far away as when using the web cam of the pc to connect their two countries, but also so close that she imagined she could feel the skin of his body. Isabella realized that it was she who must make the first move. Still, with no words said aloud, she walked to Darcy and began to remove his clothing. He stood frozen. This beautiful, sensual man almost like a child, he merely held her gaze as he completely removed all clothing. He stood before her. His manhood was strong, erect, and pulsing. Tiny droplets of pre-cum moistened the head of this beautiful cock that she was now very sure she would own - this cock and the man who wore it, who would keep it for her - it was hers.
But, there were other things first. Isabella gently touched his entire body. As with Tantra exercises, she closed her eyes and gently touched every inch of his body. Feeling the muscles ripple and quiver made her quiver inside. Feeling his cock strain for her, becoming even more engorged and the soft moan from his lips as she gently touch his manhood, his balls, and dug her nails into his ass. Everything was slow and gentle to caress this man, this beautiful man who wanted to give himself to her. Darcy continued to be fixated on her eyes, so deep a shade of blue and so intense wondering if what he saw was her own desire or just a Mistress inspecting. He felt his breathing become shallow and disjointed. His cock betrayed his feelings and now it seemed that his whole body was going to somehow betray him, tell her too much too soon, tell him too much too soon, oh god.
Isabella directed him to the bed and laid him down. He was so beautiful lying there; his eyes full of desire and - was that love? How could that be? How could this beautiful specimen find love in her when he did not even really know her - but knowing a part of her, she was about to change? Isabella very gently and slowly took off her own clothes. She was a beautiful woman she knew that but she also knew that her body was far less than perfect and was looking for any sign that he found her less than his dreams. All she saw was more admiration and a cock that now struggled to touch her body. Again, she touched all of his body, softy and gently.