The psychiatrist sat down at her desk again and opened the folder.
- Please, Mr. Stratulat, note that once you accept this option, the rules I will read to you will apply permanently. The deviation from these rules will allow both by contract and by the agreement reached, to eliminate from the discussion the continuation of this variant and will offer either the treatment variant or the permanent closure of the subject. The rules are non-negotiable and apply throughout the day, without exception. Are you careful?
- Yes of course.
It all started with an extramarital affair... unfortunate, discovered by my wife. And then everything was chained.... pornography discovered on my computer, the mistress who gave him spicy details... going so far as to impose two options on me: a shameful divorce full of spicy things or going to a psychologist where to I accept my sex addiction and accept whatever it requires of me.
Weighing carefully the alternatives, I decided that even in the darkest version... the whole psychologist was the most suitable.
And so I came across a psychologist who specializes in sexual addiction.
Without going into much detail, he presented the options to his wife: either I undergo an intense "detox" program or I accept a kind of... chemical castration. I know it sounds sinister... but after documenting me a little I realized it wasn't really awful. I'm 54 years old... anyway in a maximum of 10 years erection and sex become history. On balance, we won a relationship that I really cared about. Anyway, at least I didn't go down without explaining myself first.
-Please be very careful, because I will only read them once. You will also find them in the contract but... inattention will not absolve you from respecting them.
-Of course, I'm very careful, I'm listening.
From today you will wear this chastity device permanently. One of the keys will be at your wife's, the other at our office. You will not have access to the genitals under any circumstances.
You are not allowed to:
- attempting to partially or completely remove the chastity device
-to ask your wife to remove the device in any way
-to masturbate or get an erection or orgasm in any way
- to watch nude or pronographic materials of any kind
- to watch the material with sexual connotations on the internet or in the written press
-initiate or propose sex to your wife
-to refuse any sexual activity if it proposes to you
-to expose yourself naked in front of your wife unless she requests it
-to look at your wife naked unless she explicitly requests it
- to look at other topless or briefly dressed female persons
- to have an erection outside of sexual intercourse with your wife
-to have an orgasm during these parties if it is not explicitly requested
we will reach each of these points if they raise ambiguities.
You are required to:
you come to me weekly, every Wednesday at 14:00 for a psychotherapy session which I will detail below
promptly and honestly answer any questions your wife may have about your day-to-day business
fidelity means not only avoiding extramarital affairs but also avoiding interest in other females
assist your wife in daily household chores
tacitly accept that sexual activity is no longer a priority for you
Take care of your personal hygiene, including washing your underwear
make every effort to comply with the above rules
The weekly psychotherapy session will last a minimum of 2 hours and a maximum of 8 hours and will take place in this office. The meeting will be paid for by you in advance and will be aimed at
- the elimination of the status of masculine superiority that you show now, accepting that in social level the woman is at least on the same level with you.
-elimination of sex addiction and libido beyond the current limit
-sexual education that allows you to have an erection only when necessary and to get an orgasm only when necessary
-eliminating the need to be macho or conquering in the relationship with women
-unifying your wife both relationally and sexually
-maybe the most important is eliminating the extra and unnecessary level of testosterone that today will push you out of the sexual relationship, pornography and libido beyond normal, psychologically, educationally and even punitively if necessary.
The ultimate goal is to obtain a positive evaluation - respectively a minimum of 200 points out of a maximum of 240 (10 points per session). With 200 points, you will be able to continue the relationship as it will be in the next 6 months, chastity, fairness and honesty in the personal relationship.
Below 200 points we will start the hormonal treatment, which in maximum 2 months will completely eliminate both sexual desire and erection or the possibility of having an orgasm of any kind. Thus, we will achieve the same objectives, but with a medicinal route and with a certain permanent character.
I will not hide from you that considering the average sexual appetite of your wife, I recommend from now on the hormonal treatment that will ensure 100% the achievement of our goal, compared to the psychotronic treatment that has a 50-50 chance. But the decision belongs to your wife and she wanted to try to keep you... masculinity. But he made it known that he accepted without hesitation the disappearance of the sexual relationship between you in order to maintain the conjugal relationship and the feelings.
The meeting is not optional and does not allow you to choose what and how to do during it. One refusal or hesitation in my requests or my assistance and the meeting closes... you are free to leave.
Once a single session is missed, closed or stopped, our final evaluation will be negative... there is no point in presenting yourself at the other sessions.
Questions?
-A lot!