I often look back and think about how it all started. I don't remember making a conscience decision to submit to my wife or to hand over control but...well let me start at the beginning. We had been married about 5 years or so, the sex was still good but it had become a little routine, we had been taking each other for granted I guess.
Jenny had some girl-girl experience in college and she even had a girlfriend for a while right after she started working and had her own apartment. I started reading articles about how to revive your sex life or how to please your spouse, one of the articles mentioned that you should talk to you wife and find out what she wants. We talked about what pleased us and so on and Jenny wouldn't be specific she just said that sometimes it's one that and the next time it was something else. So when we were making love I would get her in the mood and slow things down and ask her what she wanted.
Let me take a minute and tell you about us, we're not Ken and Barbie but we are fairly attractive, height and weight appropriate. Jenny is 5'6" slim and nice firm B+ breasts that appear larger on her slender frame. She's a brunette with olive skin and she alternates between completely shaved to a well trimmed patch. I'm 5'11" about 200# thicker in the middle than I should be and average in the equipment department, about 6". I'm hairy with a covered chest and legs but not my back.
When I first would ask her about what she wanted me to do to her to please her she was hesitant to be specific or even to direct me, but over time she would ask for oral or that she wanted me to give her a massage. Over time it progressed from a kiss my pussy to directing me to lick there and to kiss there. Over time she got more specific and would talk about where and what she wanted.
I still remember the first night that I wanted sex and she told me I had to lick her until she came before I could put my cock in her pussy. I couldn't believe how excited I was so I approached my challenge with zeal. I licked and teased and worked her all over until she had a nice quivering orgasm. She lay there on the bed with her legs spread wide and her pussy all wet and glistening. As her breathing slowed I started to crawl up between her legs ready to slide into to her and feel her wetness and warmth.
She put her hand on my head and pushed me back and she said "not yet". As I backed down she swung her right leg over my head and once on her stomach she pulled her knees up under her until her butt was in the air. She said "I want another one form this side." as her hand moved under her and her index finger started to rub her clit. I buried my nose in her pussy and licked and sucked her clit.
She started moaning and moving like never before and then she pushed back toward me and lowered her hips until her butt hole was there for me to lick. I tongued her butt and slipped a finger into her soaking wet pussy as she rubbed her clit. In a very short time she had a tremendous climax and her whole body tenses and she shakes and lets out a scream and a growling moan at the same time as she collapses on the bed. She was panting and as I moved closer she put her hand out for me to give her room, let her be. After she fully recovered she allowed me to move up between her legs and enter her. She was wet and so hot that I came almost immediately.
After that time she became more and more specific about what she wanted and how she wanted me to attend to her. She also was not hesitant to have me wait for my release. She has me please her orally lick her to climax with a large dildo tight in her pussy. She becomes a huge fan of having her butt licked and kissed as well as full body massages, all the while I wait for my turn. Over time, a couple of years the requests as they were became more like requirements, they became demands.
She became controlling and domineering with out even realizing she was going through this change. For all of this time she only took control in the bedroom when sex was involved. The first time she started to branch out was one night as we lay in bed, she was beside me with her head on my chest. She would always pull a sheet up to cover my chest so she could lay her head there. My chest hair always bothered her, it tickled her face. She kind of sat up in bed and said that she knew how to take care of this. She went to the hall bathroom and got the electric hair clippers and told me to come to the bathroom.
I stood naked in front of her and she proceeded to shave my chest and then she took the clippers over my pubic hair and clipped most of it off. Over time she would pull out the clippers and put a towel on the bed shave me when she thought it grew too long. Sorry if I've spent too much time on background but I thought it would be best if you knew how we got to the first outside experience.
It was a warm summer day and I had gone for a run and when I came back Jenny was talking on the phone, I wasn't aware what specifically it was but it sounded like plans. In about 30 minutes and a cool drink I ran up stairs to take a shower. I got out of the shower and dried off and stepped into the bedroom and Jenny had a large towel over the foot of the bed and the hair clippers plugged in and a stool by the bed. It had been a good five months since she had shaved me so I was hairy.
The first thing she did was to have me lay along the foot of the bed and she proceeded to shave my chest hair very close, previous times she had put a guard on the clippers so it would leave a half inch of hair. This time she took it down very close and as she went she gathered the cut hair and placed it into a trash can. This whole process took about 15 or 20 minutes.