Caroline and I were walking one morning along the lake behind my house when she brought up a subject we'd discussed on and off for a few days. She was still curious about the collection of toys left over from my erstwhile marriage and wanted to know how much of my history was based in my need for it. She admitted that certain aspects intrigued her but that her primary interest was based on making me happy by addressing my needs.
I had to admit that I would never have become involved with my wife in a femdom relationship if much of it hadn't aroused me. The more we discussed the subject the more obvious it became that we would begin exploring to find just the right level of domination that would fulfill what I wanted from our relationship and what would arouse her to adopt in the way of control.so we found mutual pleasure and satisfaction. It also grew obvious that she was curious about submitting occasionally.
"I've been reading a lot about the lifestyle and there seems to be a general contempt for keeping femdom to scene play and a celebration of full lifestyle immersion in what's called Female led Relationships."
"That's a common prejudice."
"I think I would prefer confining it to scene play in the bedroom, rather than full lifestyle."
"I think I would probably prefer that as well. My marriage was more than enough of the 24/7 deal."
"I'm glad to hear you say that. I've also read about many people who get great pleasure from switching roles. That seems more like what draws me."
"Give and take, exploring everything as fun more than delineated strict rules?"
"Exactly, just sexy fun."
I took her hand pulled her to face me and wrapped her in my arms. Our lips met and we joined in a soft kiss that grew into something more passionate.
"I love you, Tony."
"And I love you too. Let's go inside. I really want to begin exploring our new um... understanding."
"Take me to bed or lose me forever."
"Top Gun."
She laughed heartily and we practically skipped up the path back to the house holding each other's hand.
I followed eagerly, hoping that we were in store for something extraordinary, kinky and delicious. I wasn't sure which way the cards were about to fall, not that it really mattered, I was perfectly content to serve or be served by my beloved Caroline.
The toys she'd stumbled upon ranged from sublime to sadistic and I I was ready to investigate any of them with my new love whether she wanted to use them on me or wanted me to use them on her which I was discovering was a possibility, make that a probability, with her. She had shown a fondness for the flogger, using it on my back, ass, chest and thighs. It surprised me when she asked me to use it on her and astonished me when she reacted enthusiastically to my flogging her lovely tits and floored me when she wanted to know how it would feel applied to her gorgeous pussy. That was surprise enough, but when she came from it, crying out extravagantly when she orgasmed from the caress of the leather tresses stinging her pubis and labia, I was astonished.
When I caught up to her in the bedroom, she was already naked save for high heels and holding the flogger that she offered to me with a wicked, impish grin.
"This really worked yesterday. Why don't we start where we left off?"
I was still feeling awkward taking the dominant role, but the tone in her voice and the look in her eye were persuasive, so I took the handle, and she quickly bent over, offering her lovely butt. I drew the tresses gently across the provocatively presented flesh, teasing her with their caress. This drew a happy sigh and a slight sway of apparent invitation. When I drew the leather strands through the cleft of her heart shaped butt.
"Use it, baby. Let me feel it."
I rolled my wrist to flick the leather strands down onto her haughty buttocks and her responding happy sigh encouraged me to repeat it. She pushed her butt out, seeming to ask for more. I put a bit more into the next stroke and got a bigger reaction, but her words gave me more encouragement.
"Oooh, that's it. More."
I took her seriously and built up a nice rhythm gradually increasing the power of the strokes to her obvious enjoyment. She bent forward and spread her feet, opening her junction and I took the hint to bring a few strokes up from below onto her pussy. I kept it gentle still debating the whole dominant position that was basically contrary to my nature and training.
The more strokes I delivered to her pussy, the more excited she seemed to get. I had to admit I was beginning to enjoy it too. The rhythm of spinning the handle and the sound of the leather slapping against her flesh was feeling erotic and her eager reaction was communicable. It further encouraged me when I notices
"I can't believe how good this is feeling."
"I like that you're enjoying it. I'm not doing it too hard?"
"A little harder might be even better."
"You sure?"
"Yes, please."
I took her at her word and increased the pace and force of the flogger lashes and was rewarded with her moans of pleasure.
"You seem to be enjoying yourself too."