The First Date
It was a bit strange driving with the chastity belt on. I had worn one before for some days, but a long time ago. We got talking about different stuff. It just clicked – as long as I forgot about the belt, or how good she looked.
She asked me to go via the office, she said she had forgotten something. I did so, she came back soon after with a smile on her face. I asked her what is was, she said it was something the security guard had said.
We got to the restaurant and I parked, before we got out she asked me if I was comfortable, I said I was. She leaned over and kissed me, and put her hand down my trousers, stroking the cage.
"This may be a bit nasty of me, but I love the idea of you all locked up. I am a bit wet. Now walk behind me when you can and look at my body, you can hold and stroke it this evening if you are a good boy."
She walked ahead and I couldn't help but stare at her gorgeous figure, her slim physique and gorgeous legs.
We went into the restaurant and were soon seated in a quiet alcove with privacy.
We starting talking about some work stuff, and then some sports stuff. We had agreed to leave the car there and I would pick it up the next day. We split a bottle of wine and were having a great time.
"So do you like what you see John, am I attractive for you?"
"Yes, Jess you have a great figure."
"What do you like the most in women's figures – breasts, legs, stomach?"
I was embarrassed and started giving some general answer.
"It's not that simple Jess, it is more the overall look and the personality."
"Oh for Christ's sake John, be a fucking man and say what you think and don't think you'll offend me, otherwise I'll throw away the key to your fucking cage."
I was quite shocked at that, Jess had got a bit angry with this. I quickly recovered.
"OK, stomach – I love it when women have a nice flat stomach, particularly lower stomach, and that they are so flat where men have their balls and dick. They look stunning in their dresses then. I also like nice slim legs. I also love it when women have nice nails, when they have spent time on them."
"That's better, not a pansy answer like before. That wasn't so hard was it dear?", it wasn't really a question and she went on, "What about clothing, what do you like? What makes your head turn, and makes you hard?"
"Well, shiny and tight things generally, satin, leather, pvc, latex, clothes that are tight and show off the girl's figure. There may be some lace in there. Also straps, the clothes seem so flimsy at times, little straps over the should just holding the clothes in place, oh and I love the straps from suspender belts. I also am not hugely into nudity, rather the clothes help decorate the feminine figure."
"OK, interesting, and let me guess you love suspender belts and corsets and nylons as well?"
I nodded, "the more straps on the suspender belt the better and particularly with good quality satin stockings - shiny is the key thing."
"Ok, that's good to know. Sorry about snapping at you a minute ago, I hope you don't mind."
"No, no problem at all, it's ok."
"OK, now I'd like to ask, what about personality – do you like to be in charge and your girlfriend will do everything you tell her – cook, clean, give you a blow job when you want. Do you like to make the decisions?
Or do you like it pretty equal all the time, you work things out between you?
Wait before you answer, a few more options yet – do you like to mix it up, sometimes she decides, sometimes you decide?
Or last option, do you like her to be in charge, do you find it easier if she makes the decisions and you follow what she wants. Does it even please you to have the decisions taken away from you, and you don't have to think? You just please her."
Oh wow, she was getting pretty serious with these questions, I was clearly in the last category – I am submissive if anything, and love going into sub space, but here I was on a dream date, I was afraid I would say the wrong thing.
"I haven't thought about it, I prefer it to be pretty equal I think."
She looked a bit unhappy with that. I wasn't sure what the issue was, and a silence come over us. From then conversation was difficult, we finished what was left of our food.
"Can you arrange a taxi? You can stay at mine that is probably best, I have a spare room. I can drop you off at your car in the morning."
I wasn't sure what to think at that, I had hoped we could spend the night together, even if I was in the chastity belt. However she had suddenly got all distant. I went and arranged for a taxi and went back to the table. She was still quiet.
"Are you OK?" I asked.
"I am not sure," she said, "I feel you are unable to be honest with me. I don't want to talk about it now. We can talk a bit more when we get home."
This made me nervous, was I going to lose my chance to continue with Jess before I even started? We didn't talk to each other on the way back and I got more and more nervous.
She paid the taxi, I held the door open to let her out, she smiled at that at least.
We got inside and she quickly took me upstairs showed me the spare room, and showed me the living room. She got me a drink and told me to wait a little.
I sat down and waited, feeling a bit nervous.
She came back in quietly in a big towel dressing gown.
"Look Jess, I really hope I haven't said anything to upset you. I would really like to make this work between us. You are a really special person, stunning and clever, a dream."
She smiled at that. "That's nice of you John. I just want you to be honest with yourself and me, and not be scared if things go outside your comfort zone, OK?"
I nodded, and was about to say more, but she put a finger on my lips.
"Shhh John, let me lead the conversation. One question to you – you have worn a chastity belt before haven't you?"
That scared me – that is going straight to some of my submissive tendencies.
"Yes, I have thought about chastity belts before and wanted to try it out."
"Interesting, and have you let someone else hold the key?"
I had been to dominas before, but I was scared to mention this to Jess in too much detail, what would she think of me.
"I have always liked the idea, and did once ask someone."
"Oh excellent, please tell me more." She seemed really pleased at this.
"Jess, this is a bit embarrassing to talk about, and here we are on our first date, I really don't want to ruin any chance we have."
"John, remember I have locked you up in chastity, so it's not exactly a normal first date. Look you can trust me. I have been curious about trying things like this out for a while, and I'd love to hear more. In fact if you don't tell me, that will ruin your chances with me."
At this point she came over to me