"I really think you are making a big deal out of nothing." My girlfriends sounded very disappointed. This was an argument we had had many times and each time I felt she got closer to winning.
"Babe, I love you but I really don't think this is a good idea. I just don't think chastity is for me."
"It's not just about you, it's about us. All the relationship experts agree that straight couples work better when the man wears a chastity cage and the woman owns the key."
In recent years chastity for men has become increasingly common. It has become fashionable for women to wear the key to their boyfriend's chastity cage. Supposedly the chastity helps the man to focus on pleasing his partner and spares women from having to have sex with their boyfriends every time he wants to.
"But babe, I think we already are in a good place."
"Well maybe you are, but I have to put up with you pestering me for sex. It really makes me feel like you see me as a piece of meat. Plus I don't see why you don't wear want to wear a cage." My girlfriend had changed her tone, trying to make me feel guilty. It was working, but I couldn't give in now or I would end up agreeing to chastity. Of course my girlfriend didn't know that I found chastity to be hot, but it was just a curiosity of mine, not something that I wanted to do as a lifestyle. That is what I told myself at least.
"Babe those cages hurt, the plastic can really dig in to the penis when you get an erection so I have heard."
"But babe when we want to have sex I would unlock you from the cage. I don't see why you would ever want to get an erection if we weren't about to have sex, the sounds a lot like being unfaithful. Why do you want erections when we aren't about to have sex? Are you masturbating again?"
I didn't have a response, she had been so angry with me last time she caught me masturbating I had promised never to do it again. A promise I had kept for almost two days. Sheepishly I replied "No, of course not babe."
"You have you fucking liar, I can't believe a word you say. That's why you won't wear a cage, because you would rather masturbate to you women on the internet than be a considerate boyfriend." I sat silently. My girlfriend had won.
"Okay" I said quietly. I knew when I was beaten and my girlfriend was by far the hottest women I had ever dated, I didn't want to lose her. "I agree, I will wear a cage."