I was relaxing after yesterday's scene, when Master instructed me "that I needed to edge my orgasms". What is edging, what did he want me to do? I don't like the bother him without doing a little bit of research first, I know that I can, I just like to find out for myself first.
To the google! Like everything else you google, you get way too much information thrown at you at once. I read through article after article explaining what it was and how in some healthy relationships it could be fun and exciting. Finally, I turned to a follow sub. Her answer was short sweet and very much to the same point as most of the articles I was finding. Edging is pushing yourself to an orgasm but stopping right before the orgasm actually comes. Hmmm...like everything he instructs me to do there's got to be a reason, right?
I read on different subs perspective on the matter, that it can be torture. Oh my, I was so new to this lifestyle, why would he want to torture me? Master does not seem mean like that. I was also curious because a lot of subs said that they enjoyed it. So, I thought I would give it a try.