My story begins much like many other stories pertaining to male chastity. However, there are many details that it does not share with the stories I have seen posted.
The first similarity is that I was the one who ordered a chastity device for myself, not knowing whether or not my beautiful wife would be interested in it or not. Also that I sprang it on her not knowing within my own heart just how far I wanted to go with it.
The differences are many. I did not order it because my sex life with my wife was unsatisfactory. Nor because I have a remarkably small or pitiful dick. I am far from John Holmes, but I am also far from tiny. In our eight years of marriage my wife and I have enjoyed an active sex life. Having been married to a sexually repressed woman in my first marriage, I know how fortunate I am that my wife is highly sexed and really enjoys our lovemaking. You have no idea how lucky I am! She is multi-orgasmic and she absolutely loves to taste my cum as it blasts into her mouth.
Other differences are that the events that unfolded did not lead to my being turned permanently into a completely useless, gender confused wimp cowering in a corner awaiting my wife's return. My wife and I love each other, and overall we share the responsibilities of running our household, our work lives, and raising our children. I would not abdicate my responsibilities and my wife respects my opinions. In short, this story is about our sex life, not to be confused with the rest of our life. Donna and I both have careers as professionals in our respective fields. We both experience a lot of stress in our careers.
All that being said, you must be wondering why in the world would a guy in my position have put himself in such a precarious position by giving up control of his manhood? Any time my wife or I want a "stress reliever", we are only too happy to oblige each other. I love having my face buried in her moist, tender pussy as much as she likes having my cock down her throat! So why would I risk losing her respect by ordering a chastity device and risking her thinking I was unworthy? The short answer is that I don't know for sure. I do know that I have always had a fascination with female domination. Not the her in black leather, me in a dress kind, just completely relinquishing control to a woman. Having absolutely no choice in what was going to happen. Maybe I need that because of my job. Maybe I have some deep-seated issue from my childhood. Maybe I'm just a fuckin' pervert! But the need to submit has shadowed me for years. Donna and I have played with it on several occasions, but always for individual sessions. We did play at one point a few years ago where I went for over a month without an orgasm while she used me daily. But it was more or less an honor system. I could have masturbated if I had wanted to. I could have gone to another woman if I had wanted to. I had a level of control. The only thing that kept me chaste for that period of time was that I wanted to obey Donna's wishes and I wanted to remain faithful. So had I really given up control?
As I said before, our sex life has been anything but tame. We have engaged in threesomes, had sex in public, called a friend up and let them listen while I took Donna to several orgasms. And my mischievous wife even turned the tables on me; calling me up at work and making me listen while that same friend fucked the daylights out of her!
I have always had an unusually intense drive to please my lover. I always try to make sure that "ladies come first". Perhaps that has something to do with my fascination with wanting to be teased mercilessly and not being able to control if and when I come. Not to mention that, as you well know, going without intensifies the sexuality. I think that may be why Donna and I had never gone farther with it before now, in a way. I like to be put off, but Donna has to have it. And lucky me, she wants it from me! When I had mentioned extended chastity for me in the past, she had commented that the problem with it was that she needed my cock buried inside of her.
So now you know what kind of chance I was taking when I ordered the CB 3000. I must have visited the website ten times before I finally ordered it. And I didn't tell her that I had done it. Even with my years long fascination with the subject, I still was unsure if I wanted to relinquish all control. What if she decided that I was a pathetic jerk like so many of the guys in the stories I had read online? Decided to lock me away and never use me again? What if I got hurt at work? I could picture in my mind the big boss lying on the table in the ER while nurses; doctors and co-workers laughed at his caged cock. What if she just looked at me and said, "you paid how much for this?!"
So it was with great trepidation that I waited for the package to arrive. I made a trip home each day so that I could get the mail first, before my wife and definitely before my kids! Then it arrived. I wanted to try it out to see whether or not it would really prevent me from obtaining an erection. Honestly, I wanted to have some idea whether or not I could really handle losing control of "Mr. Happy" before I broached the subject with my wife. I hid it away. It was three days before I had any time to myself. Donna and the kids were all gone for the day. As soon as they left I took the cock cage out of its package and examined it. It took me awhile to get it in place, although I did make a lucky guess as to the correct size of the retaining ring. I was going to wear it all day. But after about ten minutes, I decided that I was cheating. It had to be all or nothing. I couldn't allow myself to know whether or not I could handle it or not. I just had to dive right in by giving Donna control and seeing where it led.
So I spent the next week or so agonizing over when or how I would bring the subject up. Then, as often happens, fate took control of events. I found out on a Wednesday that my company was sending me to Ft. Lauderdale, Florida (halfway across the country) for a week to attend a seminar on my area of specialization. Each time I have to travel Donna is apprehensive. She says its not that she doesn't trust me, it's just that she knows the temptation is great. There I am alone in a distant city. I said that we had threesomes, not that we are unfaithful. And Donna is not the sharing kind where I am concerned. Our threesomes had been with a good friend of mine. But she had let me know in no uncertain terms that there was not another woman in my future! So here was my opportunity to bring up the CB 3000 in a way that Donna might like. My plan was reaffirmed when I told her about the trip. She made several "joking" comments over the next couple of days about women in other towns. And she was insatiable also, I think wanting to make sure that I was sated before I left.
I was to leave Sunday afternoon. So Sunday morning while Donna was in the kitchen, I locked myself in our bathroom and placed the chastity tube onto myself. Then I got dressed and waited for Donna to come back into the bedroom. When she did so, I handed her a small jewelry box. She looked at me, puzzled, when she opened it to see two small keys. I told her that I knew she worried when I was away, and that I didn't want her to. I told her that this had also given me the opportunity to take the plunge into the fantasy she knew that I'd had for a very long time. I admitted to her that I was scared. Then I unfastened and dropped my trousers. When I pulled my briefs down she gasped, but her eyes lit up also. So I knew that she would like it for the short term anyway. It would keep me chaste on my trip. As I stood in front of her she knelt down and examined my imprisoned manhood, lifting my cock and balls, turning it side to side to see how it worked. "Mr. Happy" began to grow, or at least tried to. He soon reached the limit of his prison and throbbed, wanting to expand. Donna was intrigued, "Oh my God, does it hurt?"
I explained that I hadn't worn it for any period of time, but that it certainly had my attention. "Can you get it off without the key"? I hadn't tried. "Well, try now." She watched for several minutes while I tried to pull myself out of the device. I had no luck. The more I handled it, the more my cock tried to grow, and the less likely I was to succeed.
Donna stood and kissed me deeply. Then she lay back on the bed and beckoned me to her. I knelt down between her legs and began making love to her tender sex with my mouth and tongue. I love going down on her! I love the response that I get; I love the taste of her, the feel of her. I alternated between slow; flat tongued bathing of her entire sex to pointed lashing of her clit. As usual I took her to her first shuddering orgasm within a couple of minutes. And also, as usual, I didn't stop there. I let her come down from her ecstasy a little and then built her up again to yet another, more intense orgasm. After her fifth orgasm she finally pushed me away, telling me she could take no more. I could have kept making love to her sweet sex for hours. My cock was straining in vain to reach its full potential. Such sweet torture!
I lay next to her and held her as she calmed down. After a few moments she began kissing and fondling me, teasing me playfully. She asked if I wanted to cum. What did I want from this?
I hesitated, then tried to explain. I told her that of course I wanted to cum. Right now I wanted nothing more than to take the cage off and fuck her brains out. But I also loved being teased and tormented, being made to wait.
We had discussed this before and, as I said earlier, even played with it several times. I tried to explain that I fantasized about having absolutely no control of my own orgasms. I said that I would understand if she didn't want the same thing. If so, then we could simply use it when I was away or for short periods of time when we played.
Donna thought for a moment, then asked, "How long are you wanting to go without?"
I hesitated, "Its not really a matter of how long I want to go without. I don't know the answer to that. Every time we make love, I honestly want to have intercourse with you."
I paused while I tried to figure out how to say what I needed to say. "The whole idea is that I want you to have complete control of when and if I get to cum. And as far as how long you have control, that is completely up to you. Its what you want. The only consideration given to me provided at your whim."
She caressed my hand as I continued, "Obviously I don't want to go forever without ever getting to cum again, but I could go forever with that choice being yours." I hesitated for a moment, working up the courage to share all of my feelings, "I am tormented by this, honey. I have wanted to give up control totally for years. But at the same time I am scared to death of really giving up all control, not being able to change it if I want to. Yet it doesn't work if I have the ability to change it. I know that if you aren't interested in this that I'm am asking a lot. But the thrill of it would be that I am completely at your mercy."