Monthly parties were the norm. Four husband/dominant-wife/submissive couples were joined by a lezzie dom/sub couple, and sometimes by a male/sub, female/dom couple. But then sometimes the male/female couple switched. Well, they said they switched, but we never saw the male as a sub; maybe the supposed "switch" was to assuage his pride, since the other four males were doms. The party rotated houses and participants, of course. This time we hosted, gathering at 7:30. Immediately upon coming in, the subs were ordered to disrobe, as nudity is required for subs (or at most a see-through negligee top was allowed to take the coolness off). Actually, we kept the house warm so everyone would stay naked and enjoy themselves. In the summer, we were out around the pool, with a high fence to keep out nosey passersby. Doms often brought their subs collared with leash. Each was immediately supplied with soft arm and leg cuffs with loop for chains or spreader bars.
After drinks, we sat down and the parade began. Each dom presented his or her sub, pointing out the salient features, including breasts, pussy and ass, usually with a few well placed, and loud, smacks with a riding crop, leash or bare hand, and often with finger penetration into various orifices. Tits were usually well played with and pinched, eliciting the occasional yelp. Pussies were usually swiped with fingers and presented to the sub to lick their juice off. Ass holes were often fingered. Subs who backed off were usually given a well-placed smack on the ass. Some were paraded around with their hand on the dom's cock.
Subs' eyes and heads are always down. Most doms require the sub to look solely at the dom's crotch, as the cock (or pussy for female doms) is the center of the subs' attention and desire. That is why they are subs, after all, to please the dom's sexual wants and desires, so they should pay obeisance to that major attribute of the dom, solely. Of course, they look around, and when caught, they're smacked on the ass. That's part of the training.
Ours was definitely a "swingers" party. We vetted everyone out, of course, and generally everyone was acceptable to the others. Safe sex of course. If you didn't want to share, then you really weren't welcome. Let's face it at a swinger party, everybody generally fucks everybody or anybody who pays attention to them. If you don't want to fuck around, stay home. We thought it might be problematical in finding lezzie couples who wanted to participate, since many may not be interested in male/female sex. But our couple seemed to like it and possibly the availability of the other female subs for the use of both the lezzie dom and sub helped.
On the other hand, the female/dom-male/sub couple were a puzzle; obviously, she was not going to permit him too much pleasure with the other female subs, but when no one was looking, who knew? Plus, some of us were always trying to get him in trouble by getting a female sub to "yank his chain", so to speak. Someone was always telling the lezzie sub to go finger his ass. There was always lots of lube around.
After the parade and drinks, the party settled down to business, or heated up if you please. At our party, the "party favors" so to speak, were colorful anal gems. We laid out the brand new toys, one for each sub, in different colors, red, blue, green, gold, pink (for the guy), and lavender (for the lezzie sub). First, the subs were required to bend over and present their asses, spreading them for everyone to see. As we sat around on the couches, a sub backed up and the dom made much ballyhoo out of inserting an anal gem into the sub's ass. After insertion, each was required to stand up and parade around, showing it to everyone and, of course, thanking us for the party favor. The lezzie sub blushed the reddest. I don't think she had been given much anal attention, but she was going to learn what her tight little bung hole is for this time out.
Strangely, the anal gem was inserted rather easily into the male sub; obviously his ass had been well-opened by someone. We had to find out. Several of the doms were secretly planning on treating him to some male/male attention, to see how his female dom would react. There is somewhat of an aspect of "get the guest" to swinger parties, after all. If you can't take a fucking and a hard fucking at that, stay home. At another party, the favors had been anal plugs with horsehair-like tails and there was much horse-like prancing around for the subs, hee-hawing and clop-clopping. Laughs and humiliation are the marks of the day.
After the laughs, it was time to start the fun. One sub was told to lie down, spread her legs wide and masturbate for us. Two other subs were told to give us a sixty-nine, and went to town on each other, one on top, one on the bottom. Of course, a couple of the doms wouldn't let them alone, poking fingers and dildos into various holes, as they moved around on the rug. One sub was chosen as cocktail table. She got down on hands and knees and a tray was set on her back to set drinks. Another sub was selected as bar-girl, with a strap hung around her neck connected on two sides to a tray, then a strap around her back to secure the tray. She was escorted into the kitchen to get drinks and bring them out to doms. Each was warned that spills would be licked up.