Lock-In 2017 (Friday)
It is Sir's favorite event of the year: "The Lock-In: Friday Night Teach-In". The Lock-In is a three day kink event that starts on a Friday and lasts through Sunday evening. Friday night is traditionally a selection of trainings by established Dominants in the scene using their subs as models or, as many such subs preferred to call themselves, guinea pigs. Saturdays are less structured time to play, play, and play some more! Finally, Sundays are closed group sessions and activities for people identifying with different identities, struggles, fetishes, or kinks to find safe space to share with others who relate. The Lock-In is usually held at a convention center or large community center that has been closed off to anyone outside the registered attendees, so it is entirely clothing optional and we all camp out inside the convention hall or auditorium for the weekend. Barring emergencies, once you come in on Friday night, no one leaves until Sunday evening, and except in extreme circumstances, there is no admittance after 9pm Friday. This creates a safe space for people to let themselves be free to be who they are, which we kinksters so often must filter.
To be completely honest, it was my favorite event too. Sir and I have been going pretty much since its inception, which was around the time of our relationship's inception itself six years ago now. Every year, Sir used me on Friday to teach about something different. It's so sexy when he is teaching; he's so fucking confident, commanding the room with ease, not that he has much trouble commanding a room at home. Well, writing that just made me squirm. I am truly anticipating the Lock-In this year, maybe even with a little extra enthusiasm than in the past. It's the first time Sir will be doing a training about the use of cuckqueaning with orgasm denial, and of course it is also the first time he'll use both Blair and me to instruct. I don't quite know what to expect, but that always kind of adds to the appeal, right?
So when Blair gets here, we're heading over to the event to help set up early. Sir helps run the Friday night trainings since he's a seasoned pro at this event. It just means we get to be part of the "VIP" drama that always happens behind the curtains. It's usually just people running around making sure all the volunteers are where they should be, being sure a dungeon monitor is at each play space, and setting up everything needed, including meals, at the right times! For two hundred people! No biggie! I'm always glad to help, and Blair will get used to it I guess.
(Saturday morning)
Whew! Last. Night. Was. Intense. Not even physically. Sir pushed me to really challenge myself mentally and emotionally. With physical stimuli, I can cope or block it out, but humiliation doesn't allow me to shut my mind off. My thoughts just go. I both love and hate it. Apparently Sir didn't feel like teaching about denial. "That's been done every year. I want to focus on one specific aspect of our little cuck dynamic, mine." His smirk told me all I needed to know. I was in for it.