Installment three: Three's A Party
Couples' sessions are among my favorite (and least favorite) scenes. Half the time they try and negotiate a threesome with me during the proceedings and the scene goes cold when the no-sex-with-clients boundary is enforced. And most of the rest are not on the same page as each other. Sometimes the man has the fantasy of being dominated by a pro, and the woman puts the brakes on that fantasy unless she can come along and supervise and make sure nothing happens that she doesn't approve of. Other times the man has the fantasy of watching his woman being dominated by another woman, and she goes along because she wants to please him, but I can tell from the start that it is really not her thing. Sometimes, they have seen domination videos or read a kink magazine or seen a late night cable television show depicting BDSM activities; and think that it might spice up their marriage, but get a massive case of "Dungeon Shock" as soon as they walk in. Very rarely is it the woman's idea. However, on a few occasions I have had women be enthusiastic about the session because they want to learn the tricks of the trade to use back at home in the privacy of their bedroom.
But only in a handful of cases, are both the man and woman into the idea and want a true dominance experience. When those kinds of couples find their way to my dungeon, it's pure magic, especially when the woman is an attractive BBW or SSBBW. The following account is of one of those magical sessions when all three of us clicked and made some real sparks fly in the dungeon.
David made the call. He got my name from a regular who visits my dungeon whenever he's in town on business. My regular is involved in both the local BBW/FA scene and the local BDSM scene back in the Midwestern city he comes from. He and David met at a BBW Halloween bash, where David and his wife attended as master and slave. Sharing similar interests, they became friends, and when my regular heard that David and his wife were coming my way on a vacation, he gave me a glowing recommendation.
Before working with a couple, I like to talk to both the man and the woman to make sure that they are both going into it consensually and with knowledge of just what kinds of things happen in a dungeon. David explained to me that he had always been turned on by BDSM and slowly introduced it to his wife, Kat, while they were dating. She seemed to also be interested in the magazines and videos he brought home and was more than happy to dress in fetish attire for him when they took turns dominating each other in the bedroom.
Kat pretty much said the same thing, adding the fact that while they often traded roles, she preferred to be dominated more than she enjoyed dominating David. Their experience ran towards bondage and spanking and moderate flogging, mixed in with sexual servitude and humiliation on Kat's part. They occasionally attended BDSM events together, but only as spectators. They were not lightweights, but not into extreme scenes either. They were hoping to test their boundaries and maybe take their experience to a whole new level in my dungeon. I think they also wanted permission to play a little harder and to experiment with rougher play in a safe, controlled atmosphere.
Kat and David are both large people, and David asked if that would be a problem, would my dungeon equipment accommodate them? Would it accommodate them? Oh but yes it would... He also asked if they could have sex during their session. Maybe they could? Maybe they couldn't? It all depended on my mood. While David was the more dominant half of the couple, I was the queen of my dungeon, and I had not decided how to run the session yet.
About a week after the appointment was finalized, Kat called and asked me where she could order some really hot fetish wear their sizes. I found out that not only was Kat a large woman, she was a SSBBW, and a rather apple shaped one at that! I gave her the information for my favorite website that sells such wares and told her to pick something with easy access, for both of them. She giggled like a teenager and told me that she couldn't wait to meet me. She also confided that she and David had been discussing their fantasies in bed and having some really hot sex in anticipation of their vacation.
A frisky fat couple to play with! Yummy! I also took the opportunity to talk to Kat about her fantasies and preferences while I had her alone on the telephone. Submissive partners will not discuss their needs and wants in front of the dominant partner. But, when I work with a couple, it isn't all about the dominant half, but also about the submissive half. And especially if the sub is a woman, I really want her to get something pleasurable out of the experience. Female prejudice I suppose.