Scott had to admit to himself that he was nervous. He had met Crystal online about 5 months ago on a BDSM chat site. At first, the interactions were the usual anonymous crap that was indicative of most of the other members. There was the usual cyber-scene and then small talk and the usual "we should meet again." Those five months, he and Crystal had shared fantasies, talked about the lifestyle, and shared online resources. About a month ago, he asked if she would send a picture of herself, and almost surprisingly, she did. The picture was of a woman about his age who was fully dressed conservatively. After they exchanged pictures, they decided to meet. Scott did take the lead and asked her and, in a way, laid the very beginning of a dominant/submissive relationship.
He arrived at the restaurant first and was seated at a table that was not really secluded but private enough. Not three minutes later, he noticed a woman dressed just like the girl in the picture, and the host brought her to his table. Standing up and offering his hand, he was surprised that his voice cracked.
"Hi, Crystal?" He said with a bit of a dry mouth.
"Scott?" Her voice also seemed a bit hesitant, which calmed Scott a bit.
Crystal took his hand and sat down across from him with a smile.
"At last, we meet, although I feel like we know each other." Scott almost groaned at the clichΓ© that fell out of his mouth.
"I feel the same way." It's finally good to put a real face to the name."
The waiter came over and asked about drinks. Crystal looked at Scott with a smile and ordered a glass of Chablis, and Scott ordered a tap beer. Both were happy that neither ordered a stiff drink. Scott always said online that he would never have a scene or be in "dominant" mode while drinking. Crystal remembered that and was very happy.
Dinner arrived, and they both talked about jobs, education, and how dating was hard. The conversation then turned to the chat rooms and some of the people there.
"Did you ever see GrandMaster?" Crystal asked with a slight chuckle. The handles that some users had were pretty bad.
"Oh yes, he was always telling us other Doms how good he was." Scott laughed as he remembered how arrogant this guy was. "He would always tell the Doms how he had multiple slaves and subs ready to obey at the snap of his fingers."
"Did you ever see a scene with him?" Crystal grimaced at the only scene she had with GrandMaster.
"Well, no, I usually ignored him. I did start making fun of him with another Dom as he had some poor submissive in a scene. He was a bit miffed, to say the least."
" I did once, and he started barking orders and calling me names. I went with the flow until he told me to kneel and then proceeded to kick me in the stomach and cunt because I was too slow. Ever see a slave stand up and call him out?" Crystal smiled, remembering that.
"I'm sorry I missed that!" Scott was impressed because most submissives would just take what the Dom did.
Dinner was perfect; Crystal's salmon and Scott's prime rib were the perfect accompaniment to what was turning out to be a great, low-key first date.
"Would you like to walk along the beach?" asked Scott. He had to admit he was very intrigued by Crystal and wanted to spend more time with her.
Crystal smiled and nodded. "I'd love to." She, too, was intrigued by Scott.
Leaving the restaurant, they walked the two blocks to the beach, where Scott hesitantly took Crystal's hand. The night was warm as they walked along the beach. Crystal stopped and took off her sandals and took Scott's hand again.
Crystal looked at Scott and blushed a bit. "Shall we talk about the elephant in the room?"
Scott grinned and agreed. It was hard to bring up their likes and dislikes even though they had been intimate online. This was reality and even though their interaction online was erotic it was still lacking the physical touch.
Looking down at Crystal Scott said, "I supposed as the dominant I should go first."
Crystal chuckled, "yeah, that would probably be the best." She was relieved that Scott took the lead as it was going to be hard to express her desires and needs as a submissive.
"GrandMaster would probably not approve, but a good dominant/submissive relationship needs to be not only consensual but also in line with what they both need. As a dominant, I want control of the submissive, but, saying that, I don't want a piece of milk-toast. I got so upset at submissives online that said, 'I'll do whatever master wants.' When I asked if they would want their master to saw off their arm, thinking a bit of common sense would come to play, they would say something stupid like 'if master wanted it, sure.'"
Crystal burst out laughing as she had seen some of the online subs act that way. "They are pathetic aren't they?"
"I also believe that a good dom/sub relationship is not just for the bedroom. To me that would be like 'hey, hon, we have some time so prepare yourself for a whipping.' The relationship, within reason and common sense, should not only establish the role of the two but also carry out to times outside of the bedroom. Of course I don't want the sub to call me master or sir when we are out in public but I believe that each person should know and acknowledge their place." Scott looked down at Crystal and took a deep breath. He hoped she agreed and yet it was quite nerve wracking to open up like this.
"You have no idea how happy that makes me. I fully agree and hate to turn my submission off and on." Crystal was almost giddy inside in hearing Scott's ideas.
Scott smiled down at her. "Your turn, what do you seek?"
"I want a dominant that is assertive, takes charge and yet uses common sense. I want to serve my master with my heart and want him to push my limits. I don't like playing games and don't believe in 'testing' my master." Crystal grinned and added, "I am not the type of submissive that will cut her arm off for him."
They both had a chuckle at that and walked down the beach. Scott stopped, turned to her with a serious look.
"I want you to meet me tomorrow night, 5pm sharp, at this hotel." Scott handed her a hotel's card. "Go to the front desk and ask them for the key to my room; I'll have it waiting for you."
Crystal's breath was taken away. "Yes sir." She was surprised that the words came out so freely.
Scott continued, "I want you to wear a white blouse, a front-clasped bra, a dark skirt, and open-toed high-heeled sandals. You're not allowed panties and your legs are to be bare so no nylons."
Crystal took a deep breath and whispered, "Yes Sir."
"Oh and one more thing, make sure you have your cell phone with you and a safe number to call."
"Thank you sir."
Scott leaned over and kissed her cheek. Taking her hand they walked back to the parking lot to Crystal's car. Scott smiled at her and kissed her cheek again.
"You had a safe number tonight didn't you?"
Crystal giggled a bit, "Yes I did."
"Make sure you call it after I leave." Scott then went to his car and got in, winking at her as he left.
Crystal took a deep breath and got into her car. Dialing her friend she gushed and said the meeting went great and she is fine. The entire drive home was a blur. Crystal got into her apartment and immediately rummaged through her clothes finding the exact outfit she was to wear. Finding a front clasped bra and white blouse she set them on her bed and rummaged around for a dark skirt. It seemed the only one she had was rather short and black. Finding the correct sandals Crystal laid them all out. Her mind was racing and all sorts of thoughts ran through her mind. She had known Scott online for a while, they were a "couple" in the chat room and tonight was magical. Still she was nervous. Looking down at her clothes she hoped they would be ok.
Going into the bathroom she started the shower and stripped. Looking at the mirror she wasn't displeased, after all she was 40 and looked good. Then it hit her. She hadn't shaved her pubic hair in quite a while. Would Scott want her shaved? She ran her fingers over her pubic hair and felt how wet she was. Slowly teasing her lips she slide a finger inside and slowly slid it in and out. Moaning softly Crystal thought about Scott. What was it about him? He wasn't ravishingly good looking. He was about her age and his hair was graying, which she had to admit, gave him a distinguished and "masterly" look. He did have a bit of a spare tire. It was something else. Her fingers slid in and out of her wet hole easier and faster. Her thumb ran over her clit. What was it? She shuddered a bit and slowly removed her fingers and got into the shower.
As the water cascaded over her it hit her. It was his confidence and his assertiveness. Yes things went slowly tonight. Yes he was, as they said in the chat rooms, vanilla. But there was a confidence and a quiet assertiveness about him. Her fingers slowly ran over her mound and she shuddered. The way he was direct in telling her to be at the hotel at a certain time and telling her what to wear. Her fingers entered her again and her thumb found her clit. Yes, that was it. It was his confidence and assertiveness that aroused her. He wasn't overbearing like most of the online dominants. He was quiet, self assured and had a good sense of humor. Her breathing became deeper as she reached for the shower head and aimed the stream on her wet mound. The water hit her clit and almost immediately she came hard.
As Crystal got out of the shower and dried off she looked over the outfit that Scott told her to wear. She didn't have time to buy anything new and, in the back of her mind, she didn't think he would want her to. Crawling into her bed she drifted off to sleep.
Scott watched as Crystal drove off and drove home. He was pleasantly surprised. Crystal wasn't a milk-toast submissive. She had no problem laughing and talking to him as equals. Scott remembered back to Grandmaster and his "advice" to Scott.