I am now at the beginning of the process of changing the roles my husband and I play in our marriage. He has absolutely no idea of my plan, and I intend to lead him into his new role, slowly, but inexorably. Basically, I intend to gain total domination and extract his total submission. I've only been working on this idea for a couple of days, but the stories I've read and the advice I've been getting are encouraging me to go much further with this idea than I had considered even 2 days ago.
I want to totally control my husband sexually, have him completely within my power and be extremely selfish to get my needs satisfied, have my fantasies fulfilled, and only give him a small modicum of pleasure in the way he has for me in the past.
In addition, i intend to hand over all household chores to him, and expect perfection in carrying them out, or he will get no orgasms whatsoever.
Also, I am intending to start a discipline regime, with paddles or canes or whatever for punishment, and possibly, a regular dose to remind him who is boss.
A lot of the women who take control seem to take lovers, several have said that their husbands are too small to satisfy them. I can't claim that, I definitely have a big boy, but still the idea of trying other men, or even women is quite appealing. I'll decide about that later I think.
So, last Friday I decided that the coming weekend would start things moving along with my project to become my husbands goddess, and I started as soon as I woke up Saturday morning. It was gone nine in the morning and hubby was still sleeping, so I shook him and told him to wake up and go get my coffee. To be fair, he goes downstairs and makes my coffee every morning, so this wasn't such a shock. Once he'd brought the coffee's and we'd drunk them, I put my hand on the top of his head and pushed down, saying that I needed him to make me cum with his tongue. I can tell you, he did a great job, and I kept him at it for 3 wonderful orgasms. Finally I allowed him back up, and he obviously thought that he was going to get some pleasure now. Well, I scotched that idea straight away, telling him that he needed to shower, as I'd written a list of jobs for him to do. He went off very disgruntled, so I called him back and told him that if he wanted sex this weekend he'd better shape up.
That worked, he showered, dressed, made my breakfast, and then started on his chores. I let him know that I was going to get my nails done, then some shopping, and that I would see him in the evening. Also, that since he would be cooking, he'd better think of something and go out and buy what he needed.
What a revelation! When I got back he'd done all his chores, and was very proud of himself as he cooked a delicious meal for us both.
