Changes.
Yours was a surprisingly short transition from enthusiastic spankee to self identification as a submissive, every variation we made to a basic spanking was our road map to D/s.
We enjoyed hunting for items together in charity and vintage shops, clothes appraised as being suitable to enhance our game, or not. Quickly learning to spot the quirks we appreciate, the skirt with a zip running all the way to the waistband, front opening dresses, transparent tops, wide belts, waist cinchers, fishnet.
Your affection for stockings led directly to me grooming you, the tiny panties and g-strings you wore to complement them couldn't contain your pubic hair. You requested I trim you. I used my electric clippers on you, initially giving you a landing strip and shaved lips. Now you're kept totally bare, as a constant symbol of your submission, you're required to shave yourself before we meet.
We have a chair we've used since I first spanked you, it's a sturdy dining chair with arms and a slotted back. When the chair appears out you know playtime is approaching.
You loved showing me how you'd dressed for purpose, revealing and presenting yourself, lifting your skirt, offering yourself to my gaze and touch. You loved settling over my lap, wearing your stockings and suspenders, ready for a spanking.
We soon realised the chair was ideal for tieing you to, knelt down on the floor arms tied to the seat, or leaning over the back offering your bottom at a different height and angle. At first we just used an old scarf or a pair of torn stockings to tie you loosely by your wrists.
Sometimes i had the urge to have you tied a little less loosely, I ordered you a set of leather cuffs for your ankles and wrists. When they arrived having you stand before me and offer your limbs for confinement was a revelatory experience for us both. Using cable ties to attach the cuffs to the chair we could have you as tight and as restricted as I chose.