I think I had pushed my Dom too far.
All i wanted was his attention. I had pulled up stakes and moved to be his 24/7 slave and for a while it was wonderful. But lately he didn't seem enchanted with anything I did, nothing pleased him, I was serious when I was supposed to be playful, and playful when I was supposed to be serious. The former earned me stern disappointed sighs, the latter earned me some mild sexual punishments, some harsh physical ones, and some extremely demanding cleaning assignments.
So I did what I did best. I played the brat. I slept in, I challenged everything he said, I mouthed off, was unnecessarily sarcastic, and flirted with his married friend who came over for dinner. He took away any pleasure for me for a week, woke me up every morning by shoving his cock in my mouth and making sure I swallowed every last drop when he came, and started going out for a drink every night.
I continued to ignore him and he continued not to take the bait. Except for one night when he was drunk, he threw me on the bed, worked most of his hand inside me and told me to shut up when I complained. One of those fingers went in my mouth, then he shoved two fingers roughly in my ass and fingered me right up until the point where I was about to come (a point he knew well), finishing by coming over every exposed part of my skin. To top it off, he held me that night while I slept so I couldn't run into the other room and get myself off.
The next day he was gone early and left a long list of instructions which I chose to ignore. instead when he came home he found me in the hot tub, dead drunk on an expensive bottle of wine which was not for casual drinking. He went out that night and that's when I think the idea came to him.