In the world of BDSM, Black men and Black women have this alarming tendency to self-segregate...from each other. What do we mean by that? The Black male dominants play with white women and white men, and other races, but avoid Black women. The Black female dominants play with white men, other women, and whoever, but avoid Black men. It is rare to find a Black male dominant who is into Black women, or a Black female dominant who is into Black men. Something must be done about that. Leave it to us, folks.
"To me, Black men are kings, that's why I only dominate white men," said Sabrina Jacobson, also known as Lady Onyx Obscura. The six-foot-tall, dark-skinned and dreadlocked African American woman pursed her lips after saying her peace. A fine oratrix educated in business management at the University of Detroit Mercy, Sabrina works as a manager at Forex United in downtown Ottawa and also dabbles into BDSM as a professional dominatrix. The lady tells it like it is.
Inside the Heart & Crown restaurant, located in the City of Ottawa's Little Italy neighborhood, silence reigned. Seated opposite Sabrina, Mamadou Olafemi considered her words. The tall, handsome Nigerian-Canadian Muslim businessman had a lot on his mind. Sabrina looks good and Mamadou has it on good authority that she is a really good dominatrix. If only there was a way to convince her to take him on as a sub...
"There are lots of white female dominants in the BDSM scene of Ottawa but submitting to a white woman in kink would dishonor my Nigerian ancestors," Mamadou Olafemi said firmly. Sabrina smiled and sipped her tea as she considered Mamadou's words. Since moving to the City of Ottawa, Ontario, from the City of Detroit, Michigan, a few years ago, Sabrina has met many African immigrants. Folks from Kenya, Nigeria, Ghana, Senegal and Congo are very different from Black Americans. The cultures are leagues apart.
"Well, Mamadou, we wouldn't want you to dishonor your ancestors," Sabrina said as she gently touched his hand. Mamadou looked at Sabrina and smiled. The two of them continued to banter while enjoying their lunch. Afterwards, Mamadou picked up the tab like an old-fashioned gentleman. In Africa, the men are more than willing to take care of the ladies but they also demand respect from said ladies. That's what a lot of Black American women got a problem with. Sabrina is old-school. This sister believes in feminine cooperation when dealing with worthy men.
Sabrina and Mamadou left the Heart & Crown restaurant, which is quite popular with Ottawa BDSM afficionados, and headed out. Sabrina rents a nice apartment in the Overbrook area, and she and Mamadou rode an Uber there. Once they got there, they shared a nice, lengthy shower then got ready for a session of kink. One should never venture into a kink session without preparation and agreed upon rules.
"Lady Onyx Obscura, I bow before you," said Mamadou. Stark naked, the big and tall Black man knelt before the dominant Black woman. Seated on a red and gold, throne-like chair, Lady Onyx Obscura looked fantastic. The tall, sexy Black woman wore a red tank top and Black leather miniskirt. Lady Onyx Obscura spread her thick, muscular legs and Mamadou grinned upon realizing that she wasn't wearing any panties.
"Not every Black woman is worthy of a good Black man, but I strive to be the best version of me, Mamadou, you are my first Black sub, ever," Lady Obscura said gently. Mamadou smiled and nodded. Black men and Black women living in America, Canada and the United Kingdom are surrounded by oceans of whiteness at all hours of the day. From the Black nerd to the Black thug, the educated and classy Black woman, the ghetto Black woman, the Black male professional and the hoodlum type of Black man, all endure this. It is hard for them to let their guard down. Even with each other. Facts of life, folks.
"I am honored to be your first Black sub," Mamadou said to Lady Onyx Obscura and he gently kissed her feet. Lady Onyx Obscura smiled as Mamadou began kissing her toes. Sabrina felt her pussy get wet as Mamadou sucked on her toes. The Nigerian Muslim man brought his face to Lady Onyx Obscura's crotch and stopped short. Smiling, Lady Onyx Obscura spread her legs invitingly, then clucked her tongue.
"You know what to do, sub," Lady Onyx Obscura said, and Mamadou grinned, then began eating her pussy. The tall, sexy Black woman sighed happily as the Black man ate her pussy. Yeah, in the world of BDSM, it almost seems like Black women and Black men exist to service other races, as both submissive and dominant. It's nice to see a Black man and a Black woman enjoying one another instead of making everything about the outsiders. Black on Black kink and sensuality can be hot. It's not always about the outsiders.
