I have always been Dominant; the desire to be in control is so innate in me that BDSM is a part of my life, a part that must be around in order for me to be complete. I will now share with you one of my first Adult Bdsm experiences. I was twenty years old when I went with out with a couple of girlfriends and my current boyfriend at the time to a club in San Francisco called the "Power Exchange". On one of the floors there are a bunch of little rooms with TV's and large square cages where people can stand around and watch the people inside the cages. I was dress in a tight black spaghetti strapped dress with three inch heals, (Stripper shoes) and an obese Caucasian gentleman announced that he was looking for a Sadistic woman. He said that he had a high pain tolerance and no one wanted to play with him. First off if anyone met me they would think that I was the sweetest person around, but deep down I am one of the most sadistic women around. So for me this guy was going to be a piece of cake, some men just don't know what they really want and when they get want they ask for they can not handle it.
There was a rather large Caucasian guy had a bag of clothes pins; he wanted someone to put some on his cock. Small as it was I was able to put all 60 clothes pins on his balls and penis. He sighed, moaned and gasped as I placed the pins on his private parts..., he smiled saying that it hurt but it was not the type of pain he wanted. I informed him as other people watched me and him that I was not done. I put some clamps on his nipples and turned him so that his back faced me. I had my BIG purple paddle in my hand and I told him to put his hands up against the wall. I raised the paddle up and whacked his butt about three times before he begged me to stop. I rubbed his behind and laughed at him while others continued to watch. The pins on his penis and balls would shift as I spanked him and he would moan.
I spanked him a few more times and then had him turn to me. He had a smile on his lips but I saw tears come down his face; then he said "that was incredible", I roughly pulled the clips of his nipples and told him; "You have not felt the true mixture of pain and pleasure yet." When the claps came he grabbed at his nipples trying to soothe them but I took my purple whip and swatted his hands away. "You do not touch yourself unless I let you." I told him as I turn him to face the crowd and said to them, "Watch this pussy boy jump." I pulled out the clothes pins from his penis and he groaned; I pinched his left nipple as I pulled another pin out.