This is a story about me, Anne and our 24/7 Dom/Sub lifestyle. It all started about 10 years ago. I was 36 at the time and divorced from my first marriage. I went looking for a new relationship that would have a bit more fire and excitement in it. That is when I met Anne.
Anne was 22 at the time. She had been in several on and off relationships but nothing too serious or long term. She was a stunning young thing, 176 cm (5'9") tall with a tight body weighing around 60 kg (130 lbs). She liked to work out and spend a lot of time to look good. She had long blond hair, angelic face and firm C-cup breasts.
We met through mutual friends and things worked out great between us despite the small age difference. We dated for three years and from the start Anne was clearly a born submissive. I could have my way with her and she seemed to enjoy it. She didn't hide the fact that she wanted a man to take care of her financially so that she didn't need to work. She was more than happy to take care of the house and herself. After two years of dating Anne moved in with me and after the third year we got married. The ceremony was very normal with family and friends and we all had a good time.
Before the marriage we agreed that Anne would be my 24/7/365 submissive from there onward. Week from the wedding we had a small ceremony where Anne pledged to serve me and my needs for the rest of her life. It was just the two of us and maybe I will tell you later what happened there. From that point onward Anne would be my subject.
The rules were quite simple. I expected total obedience from Anne. She would do whatever I said or wanted. She would take care of the house, clean, cook and keep herself pretty and in shape. She was to wear beautiful clothes when I was at home, always high heels and matching lingerie. I would of course provide everything for her. She would also take care of all my needs and desires. Any failure to comply would result in a punishment that would be determined by me.
In exchange she was free to do as she pleased during the daytime when I was at work. She was free to wear anything she liked during that time. Also I had to do quite a bit of travel for work so those times would also be free for her. She could see her friends and go out if she had time for that from her obligations. Now and again I would let her go on a couple day trip with her friends. She would do the shopping for us but also for herself. I made sure she had access to enough money at all times.
Now to make this absolutely clear a submissive wife does NOT mean a slave for me. Not even close. I expect my wife to have opinions and to be capable of free thinking. I truly respect her opinions and desires. I will hear what she has to say but I always have the final say. I want her to have personal goals and hobbies but my desires and needs always come first.
Anne was to be punished every time she would fail to comply with my instructions. It didn't matter if it was about housekeeping, personal care or special tasks I would give to her. The punishment was to be carried out once a week, usually during the weekend. Saturday night was the most common time. I would mark up all her failures since last punishment and I would administer the corrective actions. Each failure would be evaluated by me and I would deem the punishment she would receive. I tried to be fair and consistent. On top of that she would get a weekly punishment regardless of her actions. Let's call it maintenance for a lack of a better term. It was usually ten strokes with a riding crop to her ass but depended a bit on her mood and how I perceived her actions and character during the week. This was to count for every small thing that on their own would not result in a punishment but put together would be worth that much. At first Anne objected to this maintenance punishment for being unfair. I listened to her objections but told her that I deemed it necessary and that's that.
There was also the possibility that I would administer the punishment right after the failure. This was used more often at first but later I sticked more to weekly punishments. Only in some rare and severe cases I would carry out the punishment immediately. Usually it had something to do with her not obeying a direct command or really messing something up.