You know, people talk about banned implements all the time. Implements that they would never allow used on them or even implements that some say they would never use. For whatever reason. Bad experiences in the past or just an overwhelming fear. I once had that mindset, particularly about a leather strap and also a cane. The strap from the memory of it having been used on me as a child and the cane from everyone else's accounts of it.
I learned though, that in the hands of the right person no implement should be off limits. I had agreed to a cane with someone I trusted immensely, allowing that choice on his end, knowing he did not desire to hurt me. But that was not to be and I would be lying to say that I did not experience some form of relief in that. A strap had been discussed as well, if only to help me overcome my fear of it. And in knowing my fear, he would make damn sure not to make it worse.
A switch, however, was not one of those 'true' implements in my book. At least I'd never given it any consideration, thinking there would never come a time when I would actually be faced with a switching. Why would I? Amid Cracker Barrel paddles, wooden spoons and a variety of toys that can be used, why would anyone ever think to bother cutting a switch and using it? Other things work just as nicely. Besides, how boring is
that
?? A switch?
Well....let me tell YOU....
"A switch, however, was not one of those 'true' implements in my book." An interesting thought, to be sure, and a thought which would lead to interesting enlightenments for Sarah. One might note that more than a multitude would stand to refute the notion that a switch is not a true implement. Having been raised on this instrument I would be in the front row and the first to testify. Switches have a long and storied history in the better management of the errant, and no well rounded student of corporal correction would be complete without an acquaintance with their use.
Sound is a reason, obviously. Or lack thereof, as the case may be. I hadn't really done anything to deserve something as horrible as the switch, although before experiencing it I did have the thought,
How bad can it be? It's just a stick!
Just a stick.
Wrong.
Wrong, wrong, wrong
.
It is
just a stick
like a Redwood is
just a tree
.
Let me regress back and let you know what convinced me otherwise.
We had spent much of the afternoon and part of the evening in conversation about the mundane things of life. A spanking had not actually been decided upon but we had CB just in case. A gift, actually, that he himself had given me for Christmas, signed at the very tip of the handle. It was a virgin CB, as I thought it most appropriate that no one use it on me at least til he had had a chance to do so.
He mentioned getting to that point, a spanking, and asked if there was anything I needed to be spanked for (like I will admit to
that
!). So of course I said no and laughed. He knew I had brought CB but was concerned about sound resonating up and down the hallway of the hotel. Last thing either of us wanted was someone calling the cops about some sinister business going on in Room 208. So jokingly, he mentioned going outside and getting a switch.
Actually, it was a serious suggestion. There were few viable options in our situation, and the concern with a potential overreaction to the noise was real. There are very few instruments which combine the key characteristics of both tactile effectiveness and virtual silence (silence, at least, on the part of the instrument) in their use. The switch leads all the rest in this consideration. Another outstanding characteristics of the switch is that they are readily available just about any place that trees or bushes grow.
"Ummm, not sure about that...I've heard baaaad things about the switch. As a matter of fact, it is the one thing that suzy says she would never allowed be used on her."
"You ever been switched?" He asked and I admitted I hadn't. I then, out of nervousness, relayed a scene I'd seen while on vacation one year about a boy of about 12 misbehaving and his mother picking a switch off of a tree right before they headed off to the public restroom. And yes, this was in the South.
Ah, the South! The South is to switching for punishment what Sarah's native Kentucky is to KFC chicken. The two are inseparable. There is probably no other instrument of punishment so closely associated with a particular region in the U.S. as is the switch with the South. From the 19th century annals of Tom Sawyer on the Mississippi River to Sarah's modern day but unfortunate boy headed for a fateful meeting in the public restroom the switch has reigned as the worst bane of misbehaving children in Dixieland. On a different note I will give Sarah this. She states that at this point she was already nervous. It was not apparent to me. She carried on the conversation as if the thought of the switch was no more than a trifling issue.
"Well, this is what we can do," he said. "We could kinda do a spanking in role play since you haven't been smoking. Or, we can do it as a 'taste of what's to come' should you start smoking again."
Role play. Well, even in role play there must be a 'reason'. Even if it's a silly one.
"Okay," I agreed, figuring it couldn't really be
that
bad, right?
He stood up to go outside and find one and took the room key with him in case I 'decided to lock him out'. But he soon returned and announced we were gonna go on a shopping trip to Lowe's to get a dowel rod being how he couldn't find a proper switch.
"He stood up to go outside and find one and took the room key with him in case I 'decided to lock him out'." Of course! This ol' boy wouldn't make such a fundamental mistake as crossing to the wrong side of locked door with a soon to be disciplined young lady on the other side. What happened on the trip outside was that while I found a number of trees lining the parking lot, they were singularly unsuitable for good switches. The limbs were short and crooked, and much too stiff. A good switch needs to be as straight as possible, a bit firm, but with some flexibility to it. Because we were in the middle of a rather developed area, no other likely trees were in immediate site. I knew that a Lowe's hardware store was less than a five minute drive away, and that it would have an abundant supply of wooden dowel rods. While not in the same league as a good switch, dowel rods are very serviceable instruments for delivering a good whipping.
"Isn't a dowel rod like a cane?" I asked.
"Yes, a small one.
We left the room together, laughing and joking in the hall and through the lobby where a few people were present. As we walked outside I saw a variety of small trees.
"What about that tree? I asked, pointing to the one to our left. We approached it and looked at some of the branches, him muttering something about why the limbs were not right. So I walked over to another tree. "What about this one?" It looked perfect to me. Men! How come they couldn't seem to find anything? I grabbed a branch. "This one looks fine. What's wrong with this one?" Stupid me, I had no clue as to how to pick a switch.
Sarah is right!
Of
course I am!
I
had entirely missed the tree which was immediately outside the door, to the left. While it was still a young tree, it has some beautiful long, slender branches that would make fine switches. I took the branch that Sarah has pointed out, and after a brief examination snapped it off. It would make a good switch!
He inspected it then snapped it off the tree. Then he took off his jacket and wrapped it up in it so as not to attract the curious eyes of the people in the lobby.
They eyed us suspiciously anyway as we walked back through and we laughed about it in the elevator.
Once back in the room he asked if I had a pocket knife so that he could make what's called a 'keen switch'. I didn't but he went on to explain that a keen switch is one that is pretty much skinned and all of the small bumps taken off of it. This branch just had a few buds on it so he took to stripping it with his fingers while telling me about smoking and what it can do to your health. He noticed my leg bouncing as he spoke.
A good switch takes a little preparation. The intent with a switch is to cause an intense sting without also causing undue damage or injury to the skin. To aid in achieving this a switch should be trimmed as smooth as possible. Just as my own mother had done, I carefully trimmed all the twigs, knots, and rough spots from the thin limb until it was quite smooth. While I was doing this I was talking to Sarah, who was watching the whole process intently! And by this point, some initial anxiety was beginning to show through her previously calm exterior!
"Nervous?" He asked with a grin. I smiled and shook my head no, which was a lie but I was more nervous about baring my bottom, I think. When he was finished he held it up for inspection and said, "Ok, I think we're ready. Now, I like my spankings to be domestic in nature."
I stood, not catching on to what he meant.
"I like them to be domestic," he repeated. "So take off your shoes."
I did.(Like the good compliant little angel that I am.)
"Socks too, and put them over there," he pointed toward the door. As I did this he moved some things around and put pillows up against the underside of the door to block what any sound may be made, whether it be crying or whatever although I am not one to usually cry. He then had me stand up against the end of the bed, facing away from it while he fashioned pillows on the end of the bed, for me to bend over, I figured. My preference being otk, really, but that wasn't very feasible given that noise was an issue. Just as well, I think only once (no twice) I have been spanked while bending over on my own and not otk.