It was surprisingly easy to screen those guys. It only took one question, right after the
"I won't fuck without condoms and dams, not up to negotiation"
... A very simple
"Are you willing to be tied up?"
.
And it didn't take overly complicated kinbaku, either, just a simple tie around the wrists, or a pair of handcuffs. Of course, if the mood struck, kinbaku was also an option. But mainly, once a man replied affirmatively to her little question, she knew she could start talking seriously.
They were always down for it. She could always talk them into the drill. Every bit of it. That simple reply, that
"yes"
made her smile, inhale and bite her lip.
The procedure was always the same; explain her style of domination, her requirements, lay down how the guy would only be an object. A toy. That always excited them. Some just wanted to experiment, so
"toy"
sounded harmless enough, and some were so deeply into submission, the word
"toy"
sounded deep enough.
She then got into detail about the kind of things she'd say, both because she wanted to be very clear and allow no doubt about the kind of things she'd call the guy, and because she got preemptively wet by repeating those words.
It was not always the same sequence of actions and positions, though there were patterns. There's always a pattern. She'd come up with the sequence for the scene and lay it down. She said she liked to keep full control and she meant it.
She knew the swinger hotel to go to, she always went there whenever her friends, a lovingly nasty couple, went there too for some regular swinger fun.
She'd meet the subject (she referred to them simply as