My name is Mistress J. I reconnected with an old boyfriend named M who in the past was quite submissive but took quite good care of me orally. I got a surprise call from him one day and catching me in a good mood I decided to try a few experimental dates. I wasn't surprised finding over the phone that M had fallen into female domination and discipline. The day I left him I sucked his cock spitting his semen all over his bare cheeks and proceeded to spank it off with my bare hand until his entire cheeks were bright red. He was still squirming as if he was still getting spanked long after I stopped. Making him submit to this harsh spanking almost talked me into staying but I decided I had to leave for the good of both of us. The day I left I always had regrets because I never found another man whom I could trust. M openly confessed that he has had several Femdom relationships and to my surprise this happened because of his first initiation into the spanking that I gave him. He told me he had deep regrets the very day I left knowing that if I only incorporated female domination into our relationship things could have got better. I actually agreed with him but suggested we cannot do anything about the past only in the future and since both of us are free I suggested we have a few trial dates and start over.
We agreed over the phone that it would be appropriate for me to give M an over the knee bare bottom spanking with M giving me a blank check on how hard I could spank him. I told him that he shouldn't worry because by the time I was finished spanking him his ass would be toasted hot. Truthfully both of us were quite hot to perform this coming home ceremony. We actually decided over the phone just to give each other a quick hug and a kiss at the door and immediately start the spanking. M gave me directions to his house and actually moved his car so I could have his parking spot in the carport. I quickly drove over to his house and parked in the empty spot walking up to the second floor condo and knocked on the door. Greeting me with a big smile on his face was that a handsome sexy mustached stud with a ponytail. As planned we gave each other a kiss on the mouth and a hug pressing my huge breasts into his chest. I was a little nervous but I was also excited at the same time.
M was wearing a pair of blue jeans where he had cut out the cheeks perfectly for giving a spanking. I had told him I wasn't interested in looking at his cock on our first date so this little idea of his solved the problem perfectly bearing his buttcheeks which I was only interested in punishing. He had placed a chair in the middle of the living room as planned so I sat down and pulled him over my lap so that my stronger right hand could do all the spanking. Thinking about what could have been actually made me want to give him an even more intense paddling. I wanted to sear into his very being how much I wanted to dominate him. Telling him to lie still I began the spanking working on his tender lower cheeks snapping my fingers as I spanked. I have a technique of hand slapping using my fingernails scratching and digging as I spanked him. I was glad the door was closed because after about the fourth swat he was already crying out and didn't stop until I was finished. I loved watching him bouncing up and down on my lap as I swatted him. I could see my hand disappearing into his flesh and as it rose away a new red handprint appeared along with some scratches from my nails. I actually enjoyed spanking M who more than deserved everything I could give him for punishment. I think I spanked him for a good ten minutes before I allowed him to slither on the floor crying in tears.
We went to dinner that night finding a private booth to talk about our new arrangement. I decided I didn't want another relationship like we had before scarcely considering being his fulltime Mistress. The idea of being paid to give my ex-lover a whipping turned me on. I really didn't want to be paid in cash but preferred fancy dinners, clothing, and gifts instead. I told him that I would take him shopping where he would buy me whatever I wished and in return we would have a private session one he would never forget. M agreed with a nasty smile on his face. I told him the spanking I gave him today would cost him today's dinner and another one next week.
After the initial introductory spanking I began disciplining M twice a month. We usually would go out shopping first deciding on what to buy and the amount which more than paid for the session the following night. I decided that being a lady I wanted to go to dinner the night I disciplined my slave because going out to a nice restaurant made the event even more special. I didn't want to just go to his place to give him a beating and leave without celebrating. I wanted both of us to feel special even though he suffered through a whipping. I found that men are just like children and have to be nurtured after good whipping. Spending time afterwards is important for the relationship and for both of our well being. I didn't want M to think it I was just in it to beat the sins out of him every week and not establish a real loving relationship. We both enjoyed talking about the whippings afterwards as well as consequences and things we both could do to improve our lives. We actually got a lot closer even though we were not having sex. Every whipping I watched a strong handsome man strip naked for me putting his total trust in whatever way I chose to punish him. This was a real turning point for me because now I had M even though he was my slave I became more loving and caring for him because of the trust he put in me.
M liked the idea of being whipped before an altar and candles with me being the representative of the goddess. I liked the idea of him being respectful and worshiping fact that I was the goddess in human form and then I was a representative of female superiority. I didn't want to get into a set a way of doing the same session over and over again because I liked to use surprise and variety to make the sessions more exciting. Both of us liked talking over the phone to do some pre-planning for the session so that I could decide before and whether I wanted to a specific thing or not. M was quite open to most anything giving me quite a variety of nasty things to choose from to do to him. The more I learned about his past experiences the more I regretted leaving him because even though all those nasty things were in my mind I thought I was living with a fairly straight guy and come to find out he was quite open to almost anything. I decided to take on the Biblical named Delilah and call my slave Samson. I worked out several hair removal scenarios that worked well with the Biblical theme of removing power whenever you remove Samson's hair and slowly shaving my slave until he was totally under my power.
M knew I wasn't interested in having sex with him because of my chosen lesbian background. After my last relationship ten years ago I decided that the lesbian lifestyle was more to my liking and I turned butch. I found out that having a woman eating your pussy to orgasm was a lot easier than having a stud pretend he was eating your pussy just so he could stick his cock inside of it squirting you full of his slimy semen. I never let M know who my girlfriends are or who I sleep with but I am getting plenty of sex from the mouths of beautiful lesbian women. Being a butch I love strapon fucking my younger girlfriends to orgasm. I also enjoy fucking there buttholes just because I can. In my nursing job I work with a lot of lesbian wannabes whom I introduced to oral and strapon sex. I have plenty of women ringing my phone off the hook to go to bed with. I told myself I should've forgotten about men all along and I would've had a lot more fun and sexual pleasures.
Not long after we started seeing each other M confessed that he had really enjoyed strapon sex. I almost fell off my chair but didn't let on that I had been screwing women for quite some time with a strapon. It was quite exciting to hear that his ex-wife had been strapon fucking him during the entire marriage and M totally enjoyed getting it in the ass. I never considered him a gay because when we were together I fingered and licked his asshole and he enjoyed it then including licking my own asshole. I wanted to give him an experienced that none of the other women had done before so rather fucking his asshole as for pleasure I told myself I was going to teach him how to suck cock with a strapon and test his humiliation level. I really didn't want him to know how good I was at strapon fucking because then he would want that all the time and truthfully it is more enjoyable to fuck woman because her pussy is already lubricated from excitement so I can easily pull out of her pussy and directly push into her asshole without using any jelly.
I love showing off my body to M just to get a rise out of him. I think M loves being naked especially at the beach. I'm little reserved in public but I surely like showing off my naked body as well. M Loves sucking on my nipples so I gave him an occasional suck is to keep his interests. During our private sessions I have no problem being in various stages of undress other than keeping my panties on so he doesn't get any ideas about fucking me. I think swinging a whip bear breasted without the limits of my tight bras gives me the freedom to with him even more intensely because I can take a full swing without my bra chafing my skin. I do enjoy wearing something sexy every time we have the session and never were in the same thing twice. Sometimes I actually like to be fully clothed denying my slave any chance of seeing my flesh during the whipping. Whenever I want to masturbate I do it when I'm behind him so he cannot see. Sometimes I even blindfold him so that I can play with myself as I whip.
When we were lovers he learned how to eat my pussy to my liking and actually learned how to last long enough to fuck me to orgasm. I liked teasing him because I have the ability to stall my orgasm forever making him stay beneath the sheets for hours to satisfy my lusts. Many times M would fall asleep with his head in my crotch only to wake up and continue eating my pussy until I was satisfied. That was my first sign he loved to be dominated enjoying the comfort of being trapped between my legs. I even taught him how to lick my asshole so that I could climax. He will never forget the times I licked his asshole until he shot his come all of the sheets without even touching his cock. Even though he has a nice velvety mouth I think it is better to deny him any oral pleasures and enjoy my girlfriends.
